"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

teasing

booster

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2006
Messages
38
Reaction score
0
I was buying ice cream with a few friends of mine. One of them was this HB6 .5 who has big boobs. When she was standing next to me she rubbed them over my arm pretty hard.

I don't know if she did this intentionally but she did it slowly so i thought she did. The thing is she has a bf.

I was wondering how should i think of her. Is she trying to let me know that she would like to mess around with me or is she just teasing me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Jaxon

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2007
Messages
205
Reaction score
5
booster said:
When she was standing next to me she rubbed them over my arm pretty hard.
rofl...I remember when this used to happen to me. I loved it. If I could take a guess I'd say you're both probably fairly young? I'm 25 but chicks really don't do this near as much as they used to.

Anyway, yeah she was teasing you, 100%. This was no accident, she knew exactly what she was doing with those things. Probably she just wanted to get you excited and see if she could make you her pet. There's a chance she likes you but more than likely it's just a tease. If I were you I'd enjoy it when it happens and move on :)
 

DonJuan11

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2007
Messages
1,667
Reaction score
35
booster said:
I was buying ice cream with a few friends of mine. One of them was this HB6 .5 who has big boobs. When she was standing next to me she rubbed them over my arm pretty hard.

I don't know if she did this intentionally but she did it slowly so i thought she did. The thing is she has a bf.

I was wondering how should i think of her. Is she trying to let me know that she would like to mess around with me or is she just teasing me?


She wants to mess around. Sleep with her ASAP.
 
Top