"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lerner

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Hi,
I got this girl im playing with. WAIT. My intentions aren´t bad, for she´s playing with me just as much, and HAS been even more in the past.

Anyway, i´m past the initial flirting stage, dating etc. I´m at the stage where we´ve known each other for a while, I´ve been at her place plenty of times, even slept there. However, I´ve never even kissed her.

Now the thing is, she´s a real Diva, we both know it, and to handle it i play her back: act bored, cool, tease, push around etc. etc.

Now, when ive been at her place, i have been at the stage where im wrestling playfully, teasing physically: biting tickling etc. on her bed! but, BUT I´ve never kissed her. See, i KNOW shes kinda insecure deep down, and if she were to kiss me, the whole diva image thing would fall because it would be like a surrender. I also know she doesnt wanna lose me.

What i badly would like from anyone reading this right now, is any hints or tips on how to get from....biting her neck (which i have even done) to kissing her. See from THERE i would work out the rest, its just the whole breaking down HER barrier.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Taviii

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Bite her, then look deep in to her eyes and kiss her. Thats all!

Do it soon man cause your gona be in the ljbf zone if you dont.
 

JayUK

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Do this man!

bite her neck as u do, an as u do, sort of put ure hand on the side of her head, an then go up, an jus look at here, an then go in an kiss her, like nose first, so u dip in so ure nose touched her face before ure lips touch hers, shell love that,
orrrrrrr
you could jus start kissin her neck an try an make her like it, an then work ure way down to her chest or up to her mouth!
Let me know how u get on maaan!
 

SnowBlind77

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man go for that kiss, go for that p*ssy, make the move or she'll believe you to be one
 

lerner

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Thanks for the advice! I´ll try it next time i see her, then tell you how it went!

Cheers again,

lerner
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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