"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tease her about a birthmark?

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There is this woman (30) that I (37) see at a dog park every now and then that I find pretty cute/attractive...I flirt with her when I see her and noticed this cute birthmark on her chin. I can't for the life of me think of how to incorporate it into a decent flirty tease. Typically, I stay away from teasing a woman about something on her body but, something inside me just wants to say something...

Any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well you could take advantage of her dog like :

"Hey what a nice little kitty (staring at her dog and petting him)"
"It's not a cat, it's a dog lol"
"I was talking to the dog (smile) what's your name ?"
 
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Scaramouche

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Dear Patrix,
If you have a hound it is very easy to pick up another Dog Lover,they are are conditioned to think Dog Owners are alright Guys...limit the conversation to four legged friends,never mention that Birthmark ever!
 
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