Teaching her how to fight, good date idea?

[JohnnyStrabler]

Basically, the reason i came up with this is because I am now in a relationship and I feel like its tanking (her IL went down from 95% to something like 60% and feels like its plummeting even more, more on that later) so this is my last ditch effort to hopefully bring it back up, if not then I would just wait for her to dump me or whatever.

It has been written that if you teach her something it shall do the following; Make you her hero, If you are good at it (you wouldnt be teaching it if not) it is your time to show your skills, (and for me, since its MMA, it shows that I can fight)

My question is, would something physically exhausting, though an action date, be appropriate? Or the "dont make her sweat" rule applies? I mean i can tone down what I teach to her to be less sweaty and more fun (basically nothing intense, just let her punch and kick here and there)

In any case, this is my suggestion or contribution as an "action date" lol

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

BTW here are the list of why I think the relationship is going down the drain;

-Moved too fast to a relationship (can you blame me? the sex was AWESOME!)
-Seen her ALOT during the winter break (almost everyday, hell everyday)
-Acted Beta too often (granted, that when starting an LTR a little bit of Beta is needed, I think I overplayed it)
-Lost my dominance

the following is I dont know if its just on my mind (my insecurities)

-The texts becomes less
-She has been more demanding lately (and sometimes I complied! realized my mistake when it was done...)
-Asks me questions such as "how come you never cook for me?" "how come I have to text first?" etc.

So yeah this is my last ditch effort to respark the flames of desire before I reframe and disappear for a week or two.

Any suggestions regarding this too? Thanks

 

[pdx1138]

Just disappear, make her do the contacting.

You're jumping through hoops now...

don't

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

Just disappear, make her do the contacting.

You're jumping through hoops now...

don't

Funny, she just texted me and I havent replied yet.

Edit: Plus, I dont think disappearing like that without reframing it to a high note first will just make it worse. IDK why i feel that way. I would rather disappear as a masculine, dominant, cool dude she fell in love with at the first place.

Optional tactic: I will possibly get mad at something (fictional or not) punch a wall or break a table THEN disappear (heartiste aka Roissy calls this; Occasional Display of Testosterone)