"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TBI and martial arts/sparring

Epicwinguy

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I sustained a traumatic brain injury in my teens. I came out pretty well, no memory loss or retardation save for trouble focusing on reading, which I am working on.

One of the things I really want to get into is MMA or boxing. Being that I currently make little money I am sort of limited to contact sparring. I was advised against this by my doctor years ago when I sustained it, or rather, against playing contact sports.

I don't really have headaches usually, but sometimes when I shake my head a little too hard or get up from a sitting position too fast my head hurts. What is the safest way to spar in my case?

Btw, I did a little sparring here and there last year and was mostly fine but that was controlled sparring. I prefer full contact sparring or something close to it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bible_Belt

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"Full-contact sparring" is a contradiction in terms. If we're sparring, it means you are my training partner, and one does not try to hurt one's training partner. So even though we hit each other, we're wearing 16 ounce training gloves, and we still don't hit nearly as hard as a real match. Sparring is about timing, footwork, form, and conditioning. Hitting hard is not supposed to be part of it.
 
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