"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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To the guys who don't like tats on a woman:

Do you hate tattoos in and of themselves or the potential character-flaws their presence might indicate? If the latter, what flaws are these?
I think it looks normal for men to have tattoos while I dont usually find them attractive on women.

In the simplest form I would say that I see tattoos as being masculine. Basically its scaring your body to make artwork. I much rather have a lover with virgin skin.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AmIAFC said:
To the guys who don't like tats on a woman:

Do you hate tattoos in and of themselves or the potential character-flaws their presence might indicate? If the latter, what flaws are these?
Mainly I just don't like the way they look. Girls have beautiful skin and that's what I want to see. When I see large tattoos on them I feel it is marring what was beautiful in the first place. I especially hate it when they put tattoos on their breasts, because I like to see the breast, not the tattoo.

As for character flaws, if she has TOO MANY tattoos, it might indicate she's into aspects of a rebellious/biker/porn type culture, or something similar. Not exactly ladylike in other words. I wouldn't say a girl's character is flawed just because she has a bunch of tattoos, but it CAN go hand in hand.
 

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katzorange said:
thanks man... im starting up my next sleeve for the other arm couple of weeks from now... that will be a 9 hour sitting ugh...
9 HOURS!?! Holy sh*t!

Wow man how are you going to possibly sit there for nine hours? Do they at least strap you in and lay you down so maybe you could at least sleep for a bit?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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katzorange said:
thanks man... im starting up my next sleeve for the other arm couple of weeks from now... that will be a 9 hour sitting ugh...
Whoaah, what? a smart tattoo artist wouldn't do a 9 hour piece in one sitting. Anything over $250 bucks is atleast a 2 sitting period :confused: :confused: :confused:
 

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snowdog said:
Tattoo's are cool if you're a rock star, kung fu master or a sailor.

Otherwise it's stupid.
how is something that you find meaningful stupid? how is something that attracts girls stupid...you're stupid.
 

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Capodeciña said:
Whoaah, what? a smart tattoo artist wouldn't do a 9 hour piece in one sitting. Anything over $250 bucks is atleast a 2 sitting period :confused: :confused: :confused:

It can last as long as u want to as long as u can take the pain. Of course its not a 9 hour straight sitting. We got to eat too. lol. Its actually a 30 hour piece divided into 4 full days ya dig?
 

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falconslax89 said:
how is something that you find meaningful stupid? how is something that attracts girls stupid...you're stupid.

If you think a tattoo attracts girls, you're teh stupidest.

Initial curiosity (easy opener), sure.

Attraction, hell no.
 

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tatts do attract girls... since i got my sleeves, my work have been sooo much easier lol. i stand out in the crowd full of non tatted wussies lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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snowdog said:
If you think a tattoo attracts girls, you're teh stupidest.

Initial curiosity (easy opener), sure.

Attraction, hell no.
as in it attracts them too me, yes. thing is im confidant enough to keep and build on the attraction once i get their initial curiosity from my tattoo.
 

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That's good for you, but that's nothing more than a self-fulfilling prophecy. You had it in you already before you got the tattoo done, you just didn't realize it.
 
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snowdog said:
If you think a tattoo attracts girls, you're teh stupidest.

Initial curiosity (easy opener), sure.

Attraction, hell no.

you don't know anything about attracting girls, otherwise u wouldn't be a virgin.

Stop talking about shyt that you don't know, and start LEARNING!
 

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snowdog said:
That's good for you, but that's nothing more than a self-fulfilling prophecy. You had it in you already before you got the tattoo done, you just didn't realize it.
Dude. Trust me. They attract women. Tattoos. Attract. Women.
 

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Sleeves= unemployed, or underemployed. It might attract some strumpet in a bar, but come on!

I have two tattoos: USMC on my right bicep and a skull with USMC Death Before Dishonor on my forearm. I was a hardcore killer! I'm going to get the forearm tattoo removed, I'm sick of wearing long sleeves when it's 100 degrees in the summer so my clients don't know that I used to shoot people for a living.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Julius_Seizeher said:
Sleeves= unemployed, or underemployed. It might attract some strumpet in a bar, but come on!

I have two tattoos: USMC on my right bicep and a skull with USMC Death Before Dishonor on my forearm. I was a hardcore killer! I'm going to get the forearm tattoo removed, I'm sick of wearing long sleeves when it's 100 degrees in the summer so my clients don't know that I used to shoot people for a living.
I'm disappointed Seizeher, I really am dude.

I get the whole "moving on thing", but why remove artwork that incorporates who you're? a Marine. I'd rather speak to you at the bar than some banker who hasn't got shyt to say after 5 beers. I despise people who say you can't get a job with too much ink. It's like saying, guys who have gone prison automatically are underemployed, yet that guy could have more knowledge in Law school than you and I.

I was watching a prison documentary on MSNBC - Theres guys in prison inked the heck up! and prison guards have said if they wouldnt have gone to prison and directed away from there, they would've been leaders in "anything" they did.

My shirt covers the NUMEROUS tattoos on my neck and I'm in a private business firm? Theres a guy in my unit who has a mohawk with red hl's, c'mon man!

Tattoos ATTRACT all types of women. Trust me. It's the frequency or type of ink.

Tattoos are my own peacocking and I don't even mean to do it, I get asked where I got em and what my tattoos are on a daily basis. I guess we're both on different walks of life - I'd get more eyes on the beach, but you'll get employed faster than me :up:
 

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I have over 10 and they are decent tattoos and not some stupit junky stuff. its createst conversation and a lot of women think its hot because it resembles a bad boy if you have the rest of the bad boy stuff. I think since ufc fighting has became big and all them guys who have tattoos are on tv it has became more accetable. before 5 years ago, it was like what are you going to do when you have to meet her parents or what do you think they are going to say. I wish I didnt get so many, but now its more acceptable and most women find it attractive if you got the rest of the style.
 

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i plan on getting one within a year or two. I am probably gonna get one my arm..thinking about getting a falcon I think tattoos are cool on guy as long as they are not on the leg ... I think its gay to have a tattoo on ankle or leg of you are a guy.
 

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snowdog said:
That's good for you, but that's nothing more than a self-fulfilling prophecy. You had it in you already before you got the tattoo done, you just didn't realize it.
i know this...im just saying it makes it easier. its a conversation starter. IT DOES ATTRACT GIRLS. definitely....and wait...let me get this straight...you have almost 900 mosts and your on here telling guys what does and doesnt work with women, yet you've never been laid. somethings not adding up my man. i graduated high school a virgin and at 20 cant count the girls ive ****ed on one hand, and i can tell you its not that hard. thanks but no thanks.
 

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Here's the other important question in regards to guys who are seriously inked up. How are those sleeves gonna look in 10 years? 20? What about when you start getting old and your skin is hanging off your body?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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