“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Tattoos

Panda 2000

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2004
Messages
416
Reaction score
1
Yo.
I was thinking of throwing a part of my next paycheck to get a tattoo on my shoulder. Don't know exactly what yet, I have a few ideas in mind but nothing definitive. So, which one of you guys has a tattoo? Are you happy with it? Are you planning on getting more? How have people reacted to your tattoos generally?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
Get something symbolic of you.

Tribal Tattoos - Overrated
Barbed Wire - Tat Artists Hate It


Get with your local tattoo artist, see if you can sit down and get some ideas about something that is TRULY you. Remember, its more or less permanent. I know people who have had tattoos covered or "removed" because they didnt like them. It leaves them with large scars or areas of dark ink on their skin. My brother in law has tats all over his legs, back, chest, stomach, and upper arms. He's had a few covered, and people react differently. Some like it, some look awkwardly at him.
 

Panda 2000

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2004
Messages
416
Reaction score
1
Yeah, tribal tattoos, barbed wires and kanjis (chinese glyphs) are too cliché and commonly used, I don't like them. That's why I'm not getting it done until I decide on something that I won't get tired of and that complements my personality and looks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Skel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 5, 2003
Messages
1,721
Reaction score
10
get a pair of nuts tattood under your chin
 

doctoroxygen

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2002
Messages
581
Reaction score
4
I just got back from a week holiday in a hot place, where I was far and away the whitest person by the pool/on the beach. Since I don't tan, I was thinking I should get tattoos. If I can't get a healthy brown color, I should at least be interesting to look at, not pitiable :(
 

donjuanjovi

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 21, 2006
Messages
480
Reaction score
1
Location
Toronto
I have a tattoo on my upper back. Got it when I was 17 and stupid. I don't really mind it, although I don't see it much.
 

doctoroxygen

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 23, 2002
Messages
581
Reaction score
4
donjuanjovi said:
I have a tattoo on my upper back. Got it when I was 17 and stupid. I don't really mind it, although I don't see it much.
That's interesting..a lot of people I know argue against tattoos by saying "YOU'LL HATE IT IN A FEW YEARS AAARGH" but I've never known anyone who absolutely HATED a tattoo they got. Sure, they might regret it a little, but the way I see it it becomes a part of your body like a mole or something.

What's it of?
 

donjuanjovi

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 21, 2006
Messages
480
Reaction score
1
Location
Toronto
doctoroxygen said:
That's interesting..a lot of people I know argue against tattoos by saying "YOU'LL HATE IT IN A FEW YEARS AAARGH" but I've never known anyone who absolutely HATED a tattoo they got. Sure, they might regret it a little, but the way I see it it becomes a part of your body like a mole or something.

What's it of?
Most people who say that don't have any tattoo's.
You're absolutely right. It just becomes a part of you and you get used to it. Mine is of a spade wrapped in barbed wire. Has no meaning, I was just at work, bored as hell and it popped into my mind. I was young had some cash and said what the hell. Absolutely no regrets.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
I've been thinking a long time about getting a large ram head on my back, with long twisted, narled horns and a sort of demonic/ghastly appearance to it

A ram is sort of representative of my outlook on life, my personality...and its also the mascot of a school that gave me a second chance
 

blinkwatt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2005
Messages
1,904
Reaction score
7
Age
39
This is how I look at tattoos.

Have you ever seen a girl and then thought "Wow she is beautiful!" then saw a tattoo and thought "skank" to yourself? The ONLY exception I have for tattoos on women/men would be if the tattoo was in honor of someone ie a passed relative/friend.

Now if I think that of women who have tattoos,why should I think I can get away with it?
 

Deep Dish

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2002
Messages
2,191
Reaction score
175
Here is the thing about tattoos which I never really hear anyone mention: when you get a tattoo you're committing to the life of being inked but you don't necessarily commit to that particular tattoo. You can always change a tattoo if you don't like it or if it becomes too distorted over time. Of course, this is working under the assumption the tattoo is somewhere where you have the balls to get it covered up with something different. If you get a tattoo on your chest, stomach, spine, your elbows or your feet, you'll probably be hard pressed to find the courage to get it redone.

Anyway, here is my philosophy and sagely advice: Go Big or Go Home. If you get tattooed, get it as big as you can, as daring and bold as you can, or don't even bother.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

oakraiderz2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2002
Messages
4,626
Reaction score
28
Age
40
Location
Colorado
itishe said:
You're not ready for a tattoo.
True. Dont sporadically get some gay sh*t that youll hate once you realize you were a dumbass when you were younger.
 
Top