"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Task Rabbit Game...

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We all know feminists want to be like men yet when it comes to certain fields like plumbing, construction, labor, handy person, they'd rather look the other way or simply not interested.

If you're a handy man of any sorts, hell even if you can assemble IKEA furniture, this can possibly work for you, especially if you live in a crowded metro or urban city.

I've noticed with a lot of people working from home, they want to make their space as comfortable as possible and you see record number of people wanting to do home improvement.

Working with companies like Task Rabbit can expose you to various single women looking for a handy man to do various things for them, make you a less threat(lowers their defenses), it can vouch for you if you have favorable ratings, demonstrate your value, let's you screen in person to see possible interests, YOU get paid for your time and you don't have to shell out a cent. LOL

It's not for everyone and there is a certain and professional way to navigate it so you don't get in trouble. But this can work for some guys. Think of it as a formal interview where you are getting paid for your time, yet maybe building enough rapport with them to get either repeat business and/or transition into something more personal.

Just to give you an idea, one of my plates paid $90 for a guy to come over to take apart her old bed frame and assemble the new bed frame. Around 1.5 hours of work. She has mentioned a lot of her other friends are doing little renovations here and there regardless of Covid.


Just throwing this out there as a side hustle potential with a sprinkling of possibly meeting women at the same time. :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I was visiting a hot female friend and watched her turn the plumber who had come to fix her washing machine into a stuttering mess. He tried to ask her out while I was there. He gave her his card and offered to give her a ride home from the bar we were headed to that night.

If you are going to try to work this angle, you better be a little more indirect, and smoother than he was. If you are to direct with a client, you are liable to get a negative review and your cash flow will suffer....Remember don't **** where you eat. .
 

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I was visiting a hot female friend and watched her turn the plumber who had come to fix her washing machine into a stuttering mess. He tried to ask her out while I was there. He gave her his card and offered to give her a ride home from the bar we were headed to that night.

If you are going to try to work this angle, you better be a little more indirect, and smoother than he was. If you are to direct with a client, you are liable to get a negative review and your cash flow will suffer....Remember don't **** where you eat. .
Exactly.

It's not for everyone and there is a certain and professional way to navigate it so you don't get in trouble.
If you're not smooth and indirect, lack confidence, no game, non-aware, then this won't work for you.
 

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You would pretty much have to get the woman to ask you out to avoid any kind of potential backlash. I'm sure they have ways to cancel you from their site if a customer complains about you propositioning them

It seems like a bit of a long shot, but it does sound doable, especially when women have been staying at home and not having any male attention.
 

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You would pretty much have to get the woman to ask you out to avoid any kind of potential backlash. I'm sure they have ways to cancel you from their site if a customer complains about you propositioning them

It seems like a bit of a long shot, but it does sound doable, especially when women have been staying at home and not having any male attention.
You'd have to make them really comfortable and be able to gauge IOI and be sure of it and use indirect methods for plausible deniability. This is not for amateurs by any means. I mean it works for guys doing Uber/Lyft and they have even a more limited amount of interaction time. There's no reason why it won't work in this situation given all the conditions are met(she's attracted to you, horny, lonely, comfortable, etc).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Exactly.



If you're not smooth and indirect, lack confidence, no game, non-aware, then this won't work for you.
Haha well if you dont have those things, nearly everything you do isn't going to work for you.
 

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We all know feminists want to be like men yet when it comes to certain fields like plumbing, construction, labor, handy person, they'd rather look the other way or simply not interested.

If you're a handy man of any sorts, hell even if you can assemble IKEA furniture, this can possibly work for you, especially if you live in a crowded metro or urban city.

I've noticed with a lot of people working from home, they want to make their space as comfortable as possible and you see record number of people wanting to do home improvement.

Working with companies like Task Rabbit can expose you to various single women looking for a handy man to do various things for them, make you a less threat(lowers their defenses), it can vouch for you if you have favorable ratings, demonstrate your value, let's you screen in person to see possible interests, YOU get paid for your time and you don't have to shell out a cent. LOL

It's not for everyone and there is a certain and professional way to navigate it so you don't get in trouble. But this can work for some guys. Think of it as a formal interview where you are getting paid for your time, yet maybe building enough rapport with them to get either repeat business and/or transition into something more personal.

Just to give you an idea, one of my plates paid $90 for a guy to come over to take apart her old bed frame and assemble the new bed frame. Around 1.5 hours of work. She has mentioned a lot of her other friends are doing little renovations here and there regardless of Covid.


Just throwing this out there as a side hustle potential with a sprinkling of possibly meeting women at the same time. :up:
There is a song from the 70s that is about this type of game:
Hey baby, put in a phone in for me ...
Get it any way you can ...
 
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I was visiting a hot female friend and watched her turn the plumber who had come to fix her washing machine into a stuttering mess. He tried to ask her out while I was there. He gave her his card and offered to give her a ride home from the bar we were headed to that night.

If you are going to try to work this angle, you better be a little more indirect, and smoother than he was. If you are to direct with a client, you are liable to get a negative review and your cash flow will suffer....Remember don't **** where you eat. .
I think the way to play this is to leave a calling card; if she's interested, she'll call for "additional services".
 

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There was this Boyz 2 Men song "I'll Make Love to You" in the early 90s. The video had some dude installing a security system for this lady. He left his card and said something like 'in case you need any help with the security system, or anything else..." she called for some additional services.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There was this Boyz 2 Men song "I'll Make Love to You" in the early 90s. The video had some dude installing a security system for this lady. He left his card and said something like 'in case you need any help with the security system, or anything else..." she called for some additional services.
LOL, I was part of that generation and remember that. :up:
 
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