"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tariq Nasheed: The Mack Within (Book)

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Here's the link to the book
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594481792/104-7969195-1266325?v=glance&n=283155

Has anyone read this book? If you have, I would like to know your thoughts

I was watching Conan O Brian (hilarious dude btw) last week and this guy (Tariq Nasheed) comes on and talks briefly about teaching men to value themselves and not listen to the 'nice guy' crap that's being programmed into male heads by society

This is his new book and it's gotten pretty good reviews, I'm lookin' to buy it

Edit -> Here's the Book Description off amazon:
The Art of Mackin' was the first book of rules for players-from overcoming fears of getting dissed to spotting a stank dead on. Now the expert on mackin' is back with the ultimate straight-up guide for every mack and mack-wannabe. Whether he's after ass or cash, trying to spit game at a Benz-driving Diamond Girl or a street-tough Copper Chick, or if he's just tired of being coochie-whipped, it's time to open up this book and unlock the time-tested secrets of the mack game.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I should have the book in about two weeks, If I can be bothered to actually read it we will see...

I'll give a rehash of anything I find really interesting.
 

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Originally posted by superman2k6
Here's the link to the book
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594481792/104-7969195-1266325?v=glance&n=283155

Has anyone read this book? If you have, I would like to know your thoughts

I was watching Conan O Brian (hilarious dude btw) last week and this guy (Tariq Nasheed) comes on and talks briefly about teaching men to value themselves and not listen to the 'nice guy' crap that's being programmed into male heads by society

This is his new book and it's gotten pretty good reviews, I'm lookin' to buy it

Edit -> Here's the Book Description off amazon:
The Art of Mackin' was the first book of rules for players-from overcoming fears of getting dissed to spotting a stank dead on. Now the expert on mackin' is back with the ultimate straight-up guide for every mack and mack-wannabe. Whether he's after ass or cash, trying to spit game at a Benz-driving Diamond Girl or a street-tough Copper Chick, or if he's just tired of being coochie-whipped, it's time to open up this book and unlock the time-tested secrets of the mack game.
I saw the guy on Mtv true life or made (dont reember wich one) but he was helping some highschool kid get a girlfriend or something, the kid got okay results.
 

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^^^

yeah I saw that too. was a great episode of Made

i'll check this book out sometime soon
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I talked to Tariq this morning on account that he's my mother's ex husband's cousin's grandpa's neighbor and he said he would post on this site very soon under the name of Osama Pimp Laiden so watch out for some hard hitting award winning tips!
 

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