"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tap it another weekend or break it off now?

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I have a gf who lives with me, and had another that recently ended badly after about a year of being together (not the first time with her, possible return, we just don't see eye to eye and she knew I had another but still entered a relationship with me, she didn't like that she was my mistress though, jealous of the live in). But I have another one that I recently entered into a relationship with around the same time the other side piece and I were fighting/ending and she's from out of town, a few hour drive. This will be my last weekend to see her then I'm breaking it off because all my trips are starting to look suspicious. Plus I worry about getting this girl knocked up and ruining my life. AND to top it off, all this creeping takes a lot of energy.

So what say ye, tap it another weekend then end it or just tell her I'm sorry now and cancel the trip?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I thought your live in knew about the other side piece and was okay with it? In fact I thought you were living had run its course and turned platonic?
 

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Keep doing it because you get off on the ****ing Drama....

How many different threads are you going to start on this crap?
This is my impression

Looking for.emotional high and low is not on the masculin spectrum.


Stop the **** storm


Also if you wanna spin plate, dont live with a said gf.
 
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Keep doing it because you get off on the ****ing Drama....

How many different threads are you going to start on this crap?
It's a different question about a different girl so a different thread. You need me to break that down for you more??????

This is a different girl. I haven't talked to the other in 30 days today. We broke up again. Live in gf still here.

I went and had a good time. Let me guess you get none as evidenced by your posting history, as usual with attacks by guys like you. Not a single thread about a girl of your own...just like the other guy I outed on here. In fact he had a post where he said he'd pay not to be alone Friday and Saturday nights lol. Then went and deleted it when called on it...just like your little female friend you've never slept with. Just hugged, lol. And don't forget about that girl who sent your a friend request and no follow up...just like that poster I called out here before, no women of your own so you attack the guys on here who have 2-3 gf's not just dates but gf's in rotation....
 

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't have to prove myself to a **** show like you.

As it is, I had a woman move 800 miles to be with me and I 'm exhausted from having sex every morning and night since early June.

I surveyed the field for a few years and I'm satisfied with the one I picked out of the bunch. I'm not here to show my whole hand.

BTW I've friendzoned both those women and they are integral parts of my life as such.
 

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I don't have to prove myself to a **** show like you.

As it is, I had a woman move 800 miles to be with me and I 'm exhausted from having sex every morning and night since early June.

I surveyed the field for a few years and I'm satisfied with the one I picked out of the bunch. I'm not here to show my whole hand.

BTW I've friendzoned both those women and they are integral parts of my life as such.
So having in house ***** on demand is better than playing the game?
 

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When you play a game, you should know when you have won.
So getting head and puzzy on demand. Cooked for and a caring loving lady who likes to see you strong and winning is a good thing?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's a different question about a different girl so a different thread. You need me to break that down for you more??????

This is a different girl. I haven't talked to the other in 30 days today. We broke up again. Live in gf still here.

I went and had a good time. Let me guess you get none as evidenced by your posting history, as usual with attacks by guys like you. Not a single thread about a girl of your own...just like the other guy I outed on here. In fact he had a post where he said he'd pay not to be alone Friday and Saturday nights lol. Then went and deleted it when called on it...just like your little female friend you've never slept with. Just hugged, lol. And don't forget about that girl who sent your a friend request and no follow up...just like that poster I called out here before, no women of your own so you attack the guys on here who have 2-3 gf's not just dates but gf's in rotation....
This is crapy behavior, his advice might have needed some more tact.
However it was reflecting what most of us would have said.
 

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Just be poly and out in the open. sneaking around is lame. tell women you are in open relationships. geez.
 

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Dude you can't live with an Ex..then spin plates. Of course you're going to hear about it. Seriously??
 
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