"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Does anyone here go tanning? How often and how long did you go to build your 'base'? Any input would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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I use tanning bed between once a week and once a fortnight. It does make you look and feel great and well worth it. The first time I got burnt bad, so I recommend you only go on for short periods to begin with and build up. There should be plenty of guides and information at the tanning salon to help determine your skin type and how long you should use them for.

It's a great place to meet women too. ;)
 

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Well here is the thing....I go to the tanning bed at my gym,the guys lets me in for free=I save alot of $$$. It's kinda one of those things,if I scratch his back he will scratch mine,my bud lets him into the movies whenever,he lets the both of us the tanning bed and so on. I went for 10 minutes the first time,nothing too dramatic happened just slight pinkness. I'l go for another 10 tonight,if I can handle it easily again then up another 2 minutes or so. The guy who lets us use the equipment knows nothing about tanning other then how to turn on the machine,so anything you tell me is new to me. How long did you go the first time to get burnt?
 

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I was going to post about tanning but thought it would be too "metro" for the forum :crackup:

Still, glad someone else did. Anyhow, since I live in the sunshine state, I'm going to be lying in the backyard for this. Thanks Jariel for that tip, I'll try tan less each time and build up like you mentioned. I burnt myself once a long time ago, it really sucks - and hurts!

Do you guys use any lotions like sunscreen? If so, what SPF do you recommend if I want to actually tan?
 

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Do you guys use any lotions like sunscreen? If so, what SPF do you recommend if I want to actually tan?
It's a misconception that sunscreens are good for tanning, they aren't, they are actually the opposite of what you want=harder to tan. I have gone twice,10 minutes two days in a row w/o any lotion of some sort. Just 20 minutes in the booth and I'm already liking the new skin tone,and I'm not even burnt! I don't know if anyone cares but the booth I uses is loaded with 160 watt bulbs.

F.Y.I. 15-30 minutes in a booth=a day at the beach.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Espi said:
I live in FLA, so I can jog shirtless to get my tan, and I love to tan. It wnhances your physique...considerably.
I noticed that my abs are benefiting from it the most,only 10 minutes 2 days in a row and they already look more defined! I can't wait till I'm actually brownish,only a couple more weeks away!
 

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I am trying to find a good can tan. I want to keep my skin healthy
 

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I am trying to find a good can tan. I want to keep my skin healthy
Dude don't trip soo much off that 'tanning is dangerous' stuff you hear. 15-30 minutes in a tanning bed=one day at the beach. I personally haven't had a nice tan my whole life so doing it this summer won't kill me. Besides I'm only going for 10 minutes a day for awhile till I get a nice 'base',then backing off to twice a week at 10 minutes which isn't alot at all.

Just think about it,some people spend their whole lives working outside all day,some people live their lives at the beach w/o any negative side effects. Just don't go to a tanning booth like your prepping for a bodybuilding contest everyday and you will be cool.

Good Luck!
 

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Mctwist4 said:
I go every once in a while. I tan moderately easily. Naturally I am a little pasty. It took about 2 or 3 fifteen minute sessions for me to develope a good base.
Do you mind me asking how long you have been doing it for and letting me know if you have had any negative side effects from it?
 

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i live in Los angeles and weather is sunny now. like 80-90. would playing bball outside with my shirt off be a good way to tan?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I do mine by push mowing the lawn with my shirt off and wearing shorts like yesterday it got up to 82 here and I didn't realize until this morning I got myself a light tan.

I have an olive complexion and tan easely but my back looks like someone who sleeps on nails and left serious indented scares and I need a good dark tan to cover this up.


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blinkwatt said:
Dude don't trip soo much off that 'tanning is dangerous' stuff you hear. 15-30 minutes in a tanning bed=one day at the beach. I personally haven't had a nice tan my whole life so doing it this summer won't kill me. Besides I'm only going for 10 minutes a day for awhile till I get a nice 'base',then backing off to twice a week at 10 minutes which isn't alot at all.

Just think about it,some people spend their whole lives working outside all day,some people live their lives at the beach w/o any negative side effects. Just don't go to a tanning booth like your prepping for a bodybuilding contest everyday and you will be cool.

Good Luck!

Sorry i have to burst your bubble but tanning beds are MUCH worse for your skin than a day at the beach.

(Keep in mind i am no expert, this is just some general information i've picked up)

There are two types of UV rays, UVA and UVB. You get UVB rays from the sun in the summer, which, in moderation, are generally harmless. They only get into the top layers of the skin. UVA rays are around all years, and is the type used in tanning beds. This goes into the second layer of skin, and after a while can cause serious unrepairable damage.

Now, I believe in moderation tanning beds are ok (i've gone a few times) but theres a MUCH higher risk of melenoma, the deadly skin cancer.

Plus it seems like you get orange, not brown from tanning beds.
 

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kickureface said:
i live in Los angeles and weather is sunny now. like 80-90. would playing bball outside with my shirt off be a good way to tan?
Depends on the time of day, check a weather website to find UV index.
 

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oh i have to consider uv index? do i look for high/low and what ranges are those?
 

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@ Rock Solid,

Thanks for the input! Always great to see two sides of the store.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mctwist4 said:
If you tan naked, cover your junk with something. I've heard the radiation can **** up your sperm production.
I leave the boxers on,no sperm decrease here.
 

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I would go about twice a week for 2 weeks going 10 min each time. After that up it 1 minute every time you go in (1 or 2 times a week) depending on how dark you wanna get. Don't think you have to be in there for like 20 minutes to get dark. I never go that long I end up just sweating all over the place in the bed and it makes it look very unnatural anyway. I wouldn't go over 17/18 min. if I were you. If you can tan that long without getting burned you're dark enough.
 

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Mctwist4 said:
Dry skin sometimes so put on some lotion after. It helps the tan too. Watch your ass doesn't get too tan because after I went for a while the spot where my ass pushed up against the tanning bed was a little too dark. If you tan naked, cover your junk with something. I've heard the radiation can **** up your sperm production.
Radiation can fvck your sperm count up, but only if it is a certain kind. Tanning beds dont give off high frequency radiation like X-rays and and radioactive radiation. It is this kind of radiation that lowers your sperm count. Since tanning beds dont give you this kind of radiation, you have nothing to worry about.

I dont know where you got the idea that tanning beds give off radiation that can lower your sperm count. If it did, then you should also expect to get radioactive poisoning and internal cancerous tumors from using tanning beds (Im not talking about skin cancer, which tanning beds do cause)
 

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Also, to blinkwatt, invest in some cocoa butter and but it on after you get back from tanning, it seriously makes a huge difference in the tan and keeps your skin from getting too dry.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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