"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tanning Suggestions

TomN

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I'm going to go tanning for my first time tomorrow, any suggestion? What sort of products should I buy before hand? I know sunscreen is bad, but are there other lotions that would help prevent a burn and allow my skin to tan? Feels sort of wierd going to the tanning salon for the first time, I usually thought it as a chick thing, but I'm sick of being pastely white so what the hell.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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diablo

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With lotions, you get what you pay for. Start off in a low pressure lay down bed for half of the normal time (so stay in for 10 minutes instead of 20). This is assuming that you're as pasty white as I once was.

Work your way up from 10 to 12, to 14, 16, 18, then 20. Don't be afraid to drop down a level, or to stay on the same level for as long as you need to while your skin adjusts. As for lotions, I recommend California Tan's Step 1 products. They are made specifically for the beginning tanner who is working on his "base tan" - which is what you're doing. I've shopped around and found that www.waycheaper.com has the best prices (I used to go with eBay but about 1/2 of the lotions on there are discontinued, old, and not very good). In particular, I would recommend you buy CalTan's C1FX w/ Bronzer.

After a few months (don't expect to get golden brown after the first few visits!) you may want to reconsider your package and buy a few months of high pressure standup sessions. If you have any more questions, feel free to post them here and I'll get to them ASAP.
 

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question guys, ive got a few freckles on my face and ive heard that too much exposure to the sun, or tanning , will produce more freckles...... What should I use to make sure that I dont get anymore and/or lose some.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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