"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tanning Suggestions

TomN

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I'm going to go tanning for my first time tomorrow, any suggestion? What sort of products should I buy before hand? I know sunscreen is bad, but are there other lotions that would help prevent a burn and allow my skin to tan? Feels sort of wierd going to the tanning salon for the first time, I usually thought it as a chick thing, but I'm sick of being pastely white so what the hell.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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diablo

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With lotions, you get what you pay for. Start off in a low pressure lay down bed for half of the normal time (so stay in for 10 minutes instead of 20). This is assuming that you're as pasty white as I once was.

Work your way up from 10 to 12, to 14, 16, 18, then 20. Don't be afraid to drop down a level, or to stay on the same level for as long as you need to while your skin adjusts. As for lotions, I recommend California Tan's Step 1 products. They are made specifically for the beginning tanner who is working on his "base tan" - which is what you're doing. I've shopped around and found that www.waycheaper.com has the best prices (I used to go with eBay but about 1/2 of the lotions on there are discontinued, old, and not very good). In particular, I would recommend you buy CalTan's C1FX w/ Bronzer.

After a few months (don't expect to get golden brown after the first few visits!) you may want to reconsider your package and buy a few months of high pressure standup sessions. If you have any more questions, feel free to post them here and I'll get to them ASAP.
 

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question guys, ive got a few freckles on my face and ive heard that too much exposure to the sun, or tanning , will produce more freckles...... What should I use to make sure that I dont get anymore and/or lose some.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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