"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tanning Suggestions

TomN

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I'm going to go tanning for my first time tomorrow, any suggestion? What sort of products should I buy before hand? I know sunscreen is bad, but are there other lotions that would help prevent a burn and allow my skin to tan? Feels sort of wierd going to the tanning salon for the first time, I usually thought it as a chick thing, but I'm sick of being pastely white so what the hell.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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With lotions, you get what you pay for. Start off in a low pressure lay down bed for half of the normal time (so stay in for 10 minutes instead of 20). This is assuming that you're as pasty white as I once was.

Work your way up from 10 to 12, to 14, 16, 18, then 20. Don't be afraid to drop down a level, or to stay on the same level for as long as you need to while your skin adjusts. As for lotions, I recommend California Tan's Step 1 products. They are made specifically for the beginning tanner who is working on his "base tan" - which is what you're doing. I've shopped around and found that www.waycheaper.com has the best prices (I used to go with eBay but about 1/2 of the lotions on there are discontinued, old, and not very good). In particular, I would recommend you buy CalTan's C1FX w/ Bronzer.

After a few months (don't expect to get golden brown after the first few visits!) you may want to reconsider your package and buy a few months of high pressure standup sessions. If you have any more questions, feel free to post them here and I'll get to them ASAP.
 

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question guys, ive got a few freckles on my face and ive heard that too much exposure to the sun, or tanning , will produce more freckles...... What should I use to make sure that I dont get anymore and/or lose some.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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