"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stephenellsion

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I basically have a group of friends who are cool to hang with but not to sarge with. Anybody in the area that wants a good wing who won't player hate or **** block and is always willing to entertain a grenade when necessary give me a holler.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey man, i live in tampa. same situation here. all my friends are wusses. it would be nice to have a wingmen but best of all, someone to learn from. the only problem is u're 28 and i'm 18. i'm not sure if u want to sarge with a kiddo.
 

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I'm always open to chopping up good game with someone else (that's californese for talking about rapping to women). I am by no means a dj but whatever I can help you with to get started is all good with me.
 
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