tall dark handsome - to be her friend rather than lover

[tmpgstx]

I doubt they are though, because any girl that has any respect for herself wouldn't be doing a guy that's doing other girls if she really liked him. If she didn't really like him, then you're back to flakey sleep around girl - friends with benefit types.

The guy is getting what he wants though, but i'm sure it isn't LTR by any means, which eventually he'll be looking for, but that may not bode him well.

 

[rgeere]

I'm not going to debate what this guy is actually like, because I am going by the description of what was told about him. But, it seems to me that by the second description of the guy that he seems to be the type that shows signs of relationship capabilities. I could be wrong, but like I said I am not debating this.

 

[rgeere]

specifically this part tells me that he is more the non-player relationship type

He comes off as a friend to them. He doesnt go home with them. He get the number and calls them in a few days to hangout , get some coffee or something. He DOES NOT ask them out on dates..
He tells me he doesnt bang all of them. Just a couple of them. He has so much DAM PATIENCE with this

 

[AMF]

The desireless approach works. Believe me.

 

[rgeere]

Yeah, I know ... Many people don't seem to know how this works apparently, though.

 

[rgeereda2nd]

i guess you guys can call these women *****s, but like i said he does not take them home so fast and bang them.
he's not looking for a ltr. he likes to be single. I believe that these women be a ho or not , give it up eventually in hope of convincing him into a ltr.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by rgeereda2nd
i guess you guys can call these women *****s, but like i said he does not take them home so fast and bang them.
he's not looking for a ltr. he likes to be single. I believe that these women be a ho or not , give it up eventually in hope of convincing him into a ltr.

Only hors try to keep a man (ltr) through the satisfaction of her vegina!!

 

[rgeereda2nd]

bump

 

[rgeere]

Here's an old thread ...

 

[tmpgstx]

If SHE finds you attractive, she already KNOWS you are attractive to other women.

If you're superficial, you are going to get superficial girls etc.

If a girl wants you and doesn't find you all that attractive (mildly .. could take or leave) but knows some other women do (that she knows) that find you really attractive, she's just doing it for the challenge of 'beating' out the other girls. It's only the superficial ones that play this game.

 

[JackPrescott]

Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Now my question is whether that can work for anyone. I know people who have tons of female friends but they can't get action worth a damn, and have to go into desperate efforts to get anything. Right now I have a couple of female friends but I don't see it getting anywhere further than just being friends. I flirt with them and not afraid to express my sexuality. There's something missing.

What is missing is chemistry, that little burst of adrenaline folks get in the pit of the stomach when they see a member of the opposite sex they want to mate with. It cannot be bought or formed, it is either there or it is not. Chemistry, when matched with compatability, and sexual desire is a LETHAL combination. There are many fish in the sea, so to speak, why waste TOO much time on women with whom there is no real chemistry to speak of? Those ones will only always see you as a friend. Not the kind of "sexual friend" described above but the dreaded and hated "friend zone" friend which means no puss-ay.

BUT there is one thing that can possibly be done. Date often, and pursue different women. Women, when they see a man hooking up with another woman, or even dating, can begin to wonder just what it is about this man, that he has "someone"