"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sactown1

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whenever i am talking with someone i always notice that there is excessive saliva in my mouth and it causes a slight slur in my speech. Does anyone have any tips on how to reduce the amount of saliva in my mouth while talking?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Create Reality

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Swallow it? Unless it's just so much saliva like a dog's mouth? What the hell?
 

sactown1

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it gets pretty annoying pausing every 5 seconds to swallow the saliva
 

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I'm always clearing the saliva out of my mouth. Because I don't want that sh!t to happen to me.

Although, swallowing DOES make you look uncomfortable, scared and/or nervous.
 

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Slow down when your speaking and let the air you breath in run over your tongue, it'll help dry out the saliva and slowing down will give you enough time to swallow and keep talking without looking stupid.

And hell why are you talking so much man, its better to say less sometimes, I do my talking with my body :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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