Hi everybody. There is many advices not to talk with women with logic, because we are logical and womens are emotional, but what EXACTLY this means? I have problem with understanding how to talk to women when you are in relationship and have some relationship talk or how to respond to her complainings. Thank you.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Talking with women and logic?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Treat a woman when you're in a relationship the same way that you treated her when you met her. Keep doing what works.
Don't, if she is complaining or nagging, walk away and ignore her until she apologises for it.
Not sure exactly what you mean by this. More details, friend.
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People constantly conflict logic and emotions. Logic tells me not to fall for a girl since I'm only 21 years old but my emotions cause me to spend a lot of time with her.
Logic may tell a girl not to easily have sex with a guy and to make him work for it or whatever, but her emotions can cause her to have sex with you and ultimately have a sexual relationship with you.
There's no need to insert logic into a conversation. Meaning; there is no need to mention you have a cool job, have a nice watch, or drive a nice car. You are better off appearing modest about these things so it doesn't seem like you are trying to use logic to get the girl. (She has to like me! I have a cooler job and nicer car then her last loser boyfriend!)
Logic may tell a girl not to easily have sex with a guy and to make him work for it or whatever, but her emotions can cause her to have sex with you and ultimately have a sexual relationship with you.
There's no need to insert logic into a conversation. Meaning; there is no need to mention you have a cool job, have a nice watch, or drive a nice car. You are better off appearing modest about these things so it doesn't seem like you are trying to use logic to get the girl. (She has to like me! I have a cooler job and nicer car then her last loser boyfriend!)
Contrary to popular belief, men by nature are just as emotional as women. It's simply manifested in different ways, and men are raised from an early age to control themselves.Adam3335 said:
Dig down into some of that emotion and try to communicate it across.
WTF is she complaining about?? If she gets too annoying, put her in a time out.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bad conversationAdam3335 said:
You: "Hey diane, I got a new car. It has 250 HP with v8 engine. It goes 0-60 in 3.6 seconds with titanium steel suspensions.
Good,
You: "Yo Ms Diana, i got this sick car. It's a got a sun roof. You can stick your head out while going 80 mph and it will dry your hair for free"
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talk to her how youd talk to your fuking male friend. stop caring for christs sake.