Hi everybody. There is many advices not to talk with women with logic, because we are logical and womens are emotional, but what EXACTLY this means? I have problem with understanding how to talk to women when you are in relationship and have some relationship talk or how to respond to her complainings. Thank you.
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Talking with women and logic?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Treat a woman when you're in a relationship the same way that you treated her when you met her. Keep doing what works.
Don't, if she is complaining or nagging, walk away and ignore her until she apologises for it.
Not sure exactly what you mean by this. More details, friend.
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People constantly conflict logic and emotions. Logic tells me not to fall for a girl since I'm only 21 years old but my emotions cause me to spend a lot of time with her.
Logic may tell a girl not to easily have sex with a guy and to make him work for it or whatever, but her emotions can cause her to have sex with you and ultimately have a sexual relationship with you.
There's no need to insert logic into a conversation. Meaning; there is no need to mention you have a cool job, have a nice watch, or drive a nice car. You are better off appearing modest about these things so it doesn't seem like you are trying to use logic to get the girl. (She has to like me! I have a cooler job and nicer car then her last loser boyfriend!)
Logic may tell a girl not to easily have sex with a guy and to make him work for it or whatever, but her emotions can cause her to have sex with you and ultimately have a sexual relationship with you.
There's no need to insert logic into a conversation. Meaning; there is no need to mention you have a cool job, have a nice watch, or drive a nice car. You are better off appearing modest about these things so it doesn't seem like you are trying to use logic to get the girl. (She has to like me! I have a cooler job and nicer car then her last loser boyfriend!)
Contrary to popular belief, men by nature are just as emotional as women. It's simply manifested in different ways, and men are raised from an early age to control themselves.Adam3335 said:
Dig down into some of that emotion and try to communicate it across.
WTF is she complaining about?? If she gets too annoying, put her in a time out.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bad conversationAdam3335 said:
You: "Hey diane, I got a new car. It has 250 HP with v8 engine. It goes 0-60 in 3.6 seconds with titanium steel suspensions.
Good,
You: "Yo Ms Diana, i got this sick car. It's a got a sun roof. You can stick your head out while going 80 mph and it will dry your hair for free"
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talk to her how youd talk to your fuking male friend. stop caring for christs sake.