"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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talking with ppl u see everyday

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Sometimes I just have nothing to talk about with ppl, especially ppl I see everyday. I would think this is normal but it happens a lot. I can't even talk to my parents every day. There's just some days I have nothing to say.

It just feels like I'm shooting the **** which is fun, but I don't become better friends with ppl. Ppl have their own groups of friends and ****, and I don't become better friends with people. On Friday I was hanging out with some ppl and we got to be better friends, but every day at school it's kinda hard.

I guess I'm just afraid to bore ppl when I don't have much to say to anyone.

anyone else have this problem? what do you think is wrong?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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You just need more time training your social skiills
You can talk about anything to your friends
drinking, music, movies, parties, cars, anything man.
Common intrests
Its not all that hard buddy Just get out there
 
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