"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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talking with ppl u see everyday

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Sometimes I just have nothing to talk about with ppl, especially ppl I see everyday. I would think this is normal but it happens a lot. I can't even talk to my parents every day. There's just some days I have nothing to say.

It just feels like I'm shooting the **** which is fun, but I don't become better friends with ppl. Ppl have their own groups of friends and ****, and I don't become better friends with people. On Friday I was hanging out with some ppl and we got to be better friends, but every day at school it's kinda hard.

I guess I'm just afraid to bore ppl when I don't have much to say to anyone.

anyone else have this problem? what do you think is wrong?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You just need more time training your social skiills
You can talk about anything to your friends
drinking, music, movies, parties, cars, anything man.
Common intrests
Its not all that hard buddy Just get out there
 
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