"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Latinoman said:
My experience has been that most men are WORST in their believes. You see men wasting their days hanging out with women. Men trying to befriend women hoping to get laid. Men buying flowers on the first date. Men wasting hours in the telephone. Men PRETENDING to be a certain type of man, instead of STRIVING to be that man.

I rather spend my time HELPING men to be their best (as I do in here)...than do one of those "Sex and the City" stunt with my female friends.
Yea, I just can't wait for the Sex and the City premiere! I'm going to happy hour with a few of my best girlfriends and we're gonna have a few cosmo's before the movie.

"Pretending to be a certain type of man"?

Dude, you have me so wrong and you don't even know it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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