Talking to this girl who'se cousin just died!

[mikael]

Okay, so I have no idea what to do in this situation as I'm very bad at consoling people. Now I know The Game, and techniques used by DJ's around here are very manipulative and techniques that plays with the mind and I love it. But there's this certain situation that I've come across..I've been talking to this extremely hot girl lately, she added me on Facebook from college, and just recently she left for a week or two on vacation and while she was on vacation her cousin died - so while we were exchanging messages, and i asked her casually when she would be back within my whole message, she said:

my cousin just died..soo i wouldn know..
ii cant even read what u wrote me so il take time and il read this slowly..
tc 4 now..

what would you guys suggest I say in this situation, I have no idea!

 

[scrouds]

I think you should continue with the manipulation and the mind games, since you seem to love it oh so much.

Whatever you do, don't act like a human being and show any sympathy or emotion, or any consideration whatsoever to her situation. We wouldn't want you to lose sight of the "game"

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

I think you should continue with the manipulation and the mind games, since you seem to love it oh so much.

Whatever you do, don't act like a human being and show any sympathy or emotion, or any consideration whatsoever to her situation. We wouldn't want you to lose sight of the "game"

i lol'd. +1

 

[Igetit!]

while she was on vacation her cousin died - so while we were exchanging messages, and i asked her casually when she would be back within my whole message, she said:

my cousin just died..soo i wouldn know..
ii cant even read what u wrote me so il take time and il read this slowly..
tc 4 now..

This "tc 4 now/take care for now" is the BEST thing she could have said to you with during this painful period in her life. Basically she's saying "by" to you while she gets through this.
This is good. With you gone,you don't have to worry about her associating you with the negative feelings surrounding her cousin's death.

The best thing you can do right now while she's going through this pain is simply to STAY AWAY.

what would you guys suggest I say in this situation, I have no idea!

Don't say anything. If possible,go like the next 3 to 4 weeks of no contact. Give her a chance to grieve and get over this thing for a while,then when she starts to get back to normal,then reestablish contact.

You talking or hanging out with her now will only cause her to think of her cousin dying when she thinks of you.

Just stay away from her.