Talking to girls at an EDM show

[Jaylan]

Anyone ever gamed girls at one? Tips?

Im going to an EDM show friday night. I think itll mostly be house, electro, dubstep and a little hip hop. Im not sure about what scene to expect since my friend invited me and I dont know the DJs playing. The only one Ive ever heard of is Afrika Bambaataa. So I have a small idea of what to expect.

In the past, the only EDM shows I have been to were happy hardcore and trance. And those styles of EDM are a good bit faster than stuff like house, dub, or electro. Plus the scene at a happy hardcore or trance show is more about dancing. So when I went to those I was just focused on enjoying good vibes and dancing.

Im not sure if house shows work the same way, but Im kind of expecting it.

Any guys here have experience with any EDM scene?

 

[Ronaldo7]

Trance is faster than electro, even when the bass drops? Are you smoking crack?

People go to these things to dance only. If you aren't a fat midget, i can't see how you couldn't get girls to dance with you. The whole point of this is to dance to the beat. After you get them to dance with you, i'm guessing taking down their number would be 2 steps away. Try going behind them while they are dancing and just take it from there. Need to be bold about it.

 

[Jaylan]

I mostly meant the happy hardcore when I referenced faster speed. Im more into fast stuff like that, DnB, or gabber.

Anyways, yeah I know girls go just to dance...but I dont wanna "just dance". I can just dance anywhere lol. I guess Ill try the bold approach. Ive just heard people too many times say girls at shows just wanna dance, despite how slutty some of em dress.

I guess I can just treat it like any place and dance, then get the number. Its gonna be a long night too, so I should have several good opportunities (9pm to 4am)

 

[dmvdav]

I haven't been to many electronic shows, but any type of concert is one of the easiest places to get girls, at least for me. (plus in US it's pretty rare to find a gabber show haha)

Ok, you want to talk to her? that's cool, but keep it real light at first, and use the dancing as a way to get really physical really quick.

Then slip out with her to a quieter or "social" area, like a smoking section.
Then you can start talking and flirting if you really feel like talking is what you want to do.

I've been to some legal-ish raves and i can tell that crowd is a lot different from normal concert goers.
I think most people just want to dance and "slvt" it up.

Any convo you have should be playful, and light. Pretty much just for the purpose of painting an interesting picture in head about who you are, and giving her a reason to text back when you hit her up.

 

[spiegel549]

I go to EDC every single year. All joking aside the only girls you will meet there are ones to fuk. They are all dropping mollies and fuked up out of there heads.

Find a hot, mollied out chick and just GO FOR IT. Start dancing, talking to her, make a move, try to bang her.

I have friends that literally bang girls in the bathrooms at these shows. You will be fine! Dress clever. Most of these shows everyone dresses up. I always wear all white but as a shirt I wear only white suspenders (because I am ripped up) good convo starter.

Just be aggressive and you will get laid.

 

[Bince]

Don't forget to peacock. Having a distinct accessory can help you attract attention in those kind of settings.

 

[Jaylan]

The crowd I expect to be more laid back than your typical more underground rave or EDM show. From pics Ive seen on the promoters website, people dont get that outlandish at their events. So I doubt ill see kandi kids or typical raver guys or gals with barely any clothing on.

That said, I will still try and have a decent-ish outfit.

And Im not worried about getting laid. Dancing and making out is enough for me. Any broad willing to bang me at an event she just met me at is likely to give me some sort of STD. I wanna get laid as much as the next dude, but I wont smash girls at a venue...especially not in a bathroom.

Thanks for the advice guys.