Talking to a girl going through a divorce

[Bwub60]

Been talking to a girl going through a divorce. We started off pretty strong. Broke it off after a month and started back up a week later. We dont get much time together bc her kids are young and her ex doesnt take them all the time. She always initiates contact and seems to have high interest from how she acts the little we are together and how she talks to me on the phone. Then this morning I wake up and check Tinder and see she has one. I'm bit irritated and i get it's a double standard but i had one before her. How should I proceed?

PS: she most likely just made it.

 

[Spaz]

U hv been here for 5 years and u r still role playing as Mr. White Knight ?

Amazing.

Some men just simply amazes me, it's must be some inherited defective DNA, as this defies rational logic that men r predisposed to have.

 

[Bwub60]

Thanks for the advice. Btw I'm 36 and live in region that doesnt have many choices.

 

[Spaz]

R u saying there's no available single childless women in ur region?

Btw ur age at 36 has actually increased ur marketability, unless u r out of shape and out of a job....

Otherwise I see no reason 4 u not to get laid at the very least 12 X a month.

 

[The Duke]

The mark of a true beta........"I'm mad that she has Tinder even tho I've had one all along".

You are dating a woman with a lot of emotions, divorces are tough to go thru. All she wants right now is some fresh cahk. Not some needy little man worried about her having Tinder. I bet she got on Tinder because you started catching feelers!

 

[Bwub60]

Its limited in the area tbh. Now I'm trying to make the move next year to a bigger city. But this area is a bit different to say the least.

I was out of shape but have made life changes to improve myself quite a bit to where I am getting alot more attention. Anyways can we move past this and move onto the advice? I've read Corey Waynes 3% man. Read alot on here and what not.

That being said this is all more recent. I've notice beta tendencies and have been taking steps to improve.

 

[Bwub60]

The mark of a true beta........"I'm mad that she has Tinder even tho I've had one all along".

You are dating a woman with a lot of emotions, divorces are tough to go thru. All she wants right now is some fresh cahk. Not some needy little man worried about her having Tinder. I bet she got on Tinder because you started catching feelers!

you're probably right. That's why I'm asking. It's better to get beat up alittle here than say something stupid in RL.

 

[The Duke]

Then pull away, act aloof, cut out your needy behavior, date other girls. <---This is the solution for 95% of the problems men have with women.

 

[resilient]

Just be smart Bwub and make her a plate.

She's acquiring her own plates with that Tinder account. I guarantee it.

I don't know the circumstances of the divorce or how long they were together. In any case, she likely is crazy frustrated from not getting her needs met and wants to jump in the water to see what she's been missing out.

She is essentially a kid at Baskin Robbins seeing their 31 flavors on OLD/Tinder and trying to decide which one(s) she wants to taste first.

While she's evaluating her options, stay busy with work, hobbies, social spheres, and the bros to keep your mind off this girl as much as possible.

 

[Bwub60]

Just be smart Bwub and make her a plate.

She's acquiring her own plates with that Tinder account. I guarantee it.

I don't know the circumstances of the divorce or how long they were together. In any case, she likely is crazy frustrated from not getting her needs met and wants to jump in the water to see what she's been missing out.

She is essentially a kid at Baskin Robbins seeing their 31 flavors on OLD/Tinder and trying to decide which one(s) she wants to taste first.

While she's evaluating her options, stay busy with work, hobbies, social spheres, and the bros to keep your mind off this girl as much as possible.

yall are right and luckily football starts soon. I'm a coach and a Teacher. I have been dating other women but haven't found anyone else that I really liked.

Like I said I've been beta with women for a long time and happen to get emotional with women. Im a coach and passionate so learning to be more even keel has been a process but I've been working out, doing yoga, meditating and drinking to much this summer. Like I said it's been a process.

 

[sazc]

Typical double standards

 

[Glassguy]

I agree with most comments already made.

I have dated several women who were "getting divorced". I can tell you that they make good plates but nothing else.

You are a coach and teacher. Do you really want to "date" this woman and be seen out in public with her? No matter what the circumstances, some people will assume that you are the reason for the divorce. Its just the way it is.

Out of all the "getting divorced" women I have plated, none had kids. That would throw another component into the equation that you dont want to deal with.

Simply tell her "I like hanging out with you, but for now we should just be friends with benefits until you get your life back after your divorce".

I always tell them that they DO NOT need anything serious, just fun, call me when you want to come hang out and we can work it out.

It always works like a charm. You should in no way, shape or form even consider a relationship with this woman. Fvck her a couple of times a week and get ready for football season.

 

[Trump]

She always initiates contact and seems to have high interest from how she acts the little we are together and how she talks to me on the phone. Then this morning I wake up and check Tinder and see she has one. I'm bit irritated and i get it's a double standard but i had one before her. How should I proceed?

PS: she most likely just made it.

Tell her since you had a Tinder Account before her, she should delete hers.

 

[Bwub60]

Tell her since you had a Tinder Account before her, she should delete hers.

Noted lol

 

[greatsnake]

bang her already. if not, move on-- she's just using you.

 

[The Duke]

Typical double standards

I'm assuming you are referring to the fact that he is on Tinder and she shouldn't be?

 

[GT40]

Plate material. She’s on the rebound dude. Don’t get tied up with this one you’ll get burnt. She’s an emotional mess right now. She may even go back to H you don’t know this.
Plate lay once a week.

 

[Dingo]

How old is she ?

 

[skinnyguy]

Make sure you pull out bruh

 

[Bwub60]

How old is she ?

29