"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Talking to a 10/10 and she knows I have a gf

EL_MALO

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I been talking with this girl she is a 10/10 super hot like vida guerra style big ass pretty face w/e. She is 18 she came out of a 3 years ltr 4 months ago. she knows I have a gf of 1.6 she is like (8.5) but she assumes im not in love. that night that we talked on the phone like 4 days ago i made her touch her self and she came 3 times she had no idea what was her g spot and like that and some seduction I made her touch her self while I talk to her. like 2 days ago we went out in a big group and she was in the group all couples and she was the only one single I know she is into me, but the fight is hard she has many guys behind her back.
Yesterday when we talked she was telling me how she wanted to talk to me in person but because of my gf we couldn’t. Also that I look better in person than the picture she knows my friend gf so that’s why she was in the group. She always tells me I could call her anytime I want since she knows she cant do that. Yesterday when we were talking on my way to work she was asking me at what time i get out and I asked her why she wanted to know that she said that she was interested on my schedule I told her at 7 she said call me please I said no you call me you could call me but only at 7 she said ok but she never did...

I have never talked to a girl that is a pure 10/10 so what’s the deal in this area im not new here I been in this site for like 3 years but a lil off track. English is not my native language. What do you guys suggest...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sav

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becareful,

if you dump your gf for her, she may lose interest..

you are taken, and its a challenge for her.. she knows ur interested but taken and its driving her crazy...

been there before, never ends well... stay true to your gf is my advice.. especially if after 1.6 years she hasnt done anything to give you reasons to dump her...

on the flipside though, if your feelings for your gf have faded and ur just with her for comfortability reasons, you can jump ship, but before you do, break up with her.. its a sign of respect for yourself as it is a sign of respect for the 1.6 years she put in with you...
 

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Yah I have a response and maybe you can answer this for me? Since when can ANY female be 10/10? I know of a few 9/10's but I never knew anyone was perfect?

To answer your question...

What makes you think she "came" 3 times? Its over the phone, for all you know she could be faking it?

Are you sure you have been on this site for 3 years? One of the first things I learnt was that NO GIRL is 10/10?

She seems interested in you, however, her interests could be based upon the fact that you "have a girl" and are a "challenge" to her which seems to be working in your favour. The choice is yours really, do you want her or do you want to stay loyal to your girlfriend?

Oh, and listen to what "sav" said its kinda similar to what I have just explained...
 

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trust me, if she knows you have aGF and she is still aro und, she is not a 10 out of 10
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EL_MALO

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When im talking about 10/10 im talking about face/ body dude who cares if u prefer to read 9/10 who gives a **** u understand what Im saying. And why would she fake that on thephone ihave friends that know her and they say she is really nice
 

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Its not about reading, its about the fact by you thinking in your mind she is 10/10 you have TRANSFERRED any power you had or have over her to NOTHING. By thinking she is 9/10 pyschologically one thinks she isnt PERFECT and therefore you DONT transfer any "power" onto her..

Why would she lie? Her friends say she is "NICE" so why would she lie?
:crackup:

Well , that says it all she is "nice" and doesnt want to hurt your feelings, since when do "nice" girls masturbate 3 times in one phone call? And even if "nice" girls do masturbate its HIGHLY unlikely she did it 3 times over the phone to you unless you are in a LTR , I think its a case of her getting you all excited and her not hurting your feelings.
 

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dude she is really horny thats it and a good conversation
 

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Well, than like myself and "sav" said : Its HER or YOUR GIRL. But read what we both wrote about that situation...
 

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ok this girl is an attention ***** and likes to play tons of mind game im out of that. Only thing i wish is to **** her once i do that her games will stop but im sure it wil take time and effort and im not up for her **** for now i will stop contacting her and see what she does....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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