"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Talking smack to chicks

dillin

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Yeah so this was awhile ago (2 months ago) when I was with my old girlfriend and I was getting bored and I was in a bad mood and felt like she was a waste of time so I started saying all this stuff about her like how she's a waste of my time and she is lucky to be around me and how she is lucky I even got her a present for christmas because I wasnt sure if she was worth it then I started telling her I'm going to get her a pack of gum for her birthday and thats if she's lucky then when we got back to my place I made out with her a little and left but then I talk to her friend and she's all like "yeah she is REALLY upset about what you said and doesn't want to talk to you blablabla" so I'm like whatever.

I decided to call her anyways to see whats up and she is all trying to play cool even though her friend told me how she was freaking out the other day about what I said so I was like ok whatever but I'll say whatever the hell I want and do whatever I want so bye. I'll admit I felt a little bad so I called back and said sorry for what I said then said bye and havent talked to her since then which was 2 months ago.

What do you guys think about doing this type of sh!t to ho's who are really into you but get boring after awhile.

PS: She is still single and is desperate as hell! LOL
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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M2k961

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There's a line between ****y and/or funny and this garbage. Don't be an *******. You're not god. You're far from it. You can't even make a proper english post.

Don't do this "smack" to chicks. It's arrogant garbage and no one likes it.

You have to learn how to be confident without putting other people down.

But getting to your question.. If the girl is boring, then next her, or bring some excitement into the relationship.
 

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dude, if you are gonna say stuff like that to a chick, just never expect to talk to her again. Like, once this girl wouldnt leave me alone and was callin me all the time. So, I told her she made my penis soft. She hasnt talked to me since. If a girl said the stuff to me that you said to her, I would never talk to her again. Do you think you would?
 

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But getting to your question.. If the girl is boring, then next her, or bring some excitement into the relationship.
Thats what I was trying to do. LOL

She was just sooo boring, she was a total introvert, must have been why she has always been single. It was just that she was a total AFC type girl even though I did like her I would rather just have a good little argument or something before we end up just sitting there with nothing to say to each other.
 

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Grow up. I would redicrect you to a better forum on this site but I can't see kindergarden discussion on the list.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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