Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Talking on the phone or text between dates

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I was wondering how often you guys will talk or text to a chick that you have met and only banged once in between the 1st and 2nd meeting? I met this chick this past Saturday, banged her and had a good time with her..... texted her Monday had short text convo and have been silent since....our next meeting is not this coming weekend but the next...so i feel i better maintain some kind of contact to make her not think i am not completely aloof...

But at the same time i hate talking and hate texting almost as much...what's a good frequency here...i am thinking just text her on Friday wish her a good weekend and then the following Tuesday or Wednesday set up the exact meeting time and place....this is the first chick i have met in a while that i actually have any concerns about...usually i just pump and dump or could care less what happens with them...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just text her when you feel like it, but take it easy. Don't text her too much. She might even initiate. If she does then you can definitely text her back. Don't text her anything like "what's up" or anything boring.

You already f-closed so you are in the "guys I've fvcked" bucket. It's a little harder to screw it up now. Just relax and don't be over-eager.
 
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Stick to your guns - the less texting/communication you have with her between now and when you're supposed to meet, the better.

Don't fall for the "I have to talk to her beforehand or she'll forget about me" lie that most guys fall for. You've already been up in her, so it's going to be hard for her to forget you. The only communication you should have with her between now and next weekend is ONE phone call to set up where you'll be meeting up. That's IT. No follow up calls, no "re-re-confirmation" calls - just call her up, set up the date, time and location, and show up when you've agreed to show up.

Save the remaining conversation (assuming they'll be any talking at all, lol) for when you see her again. If she wanted to chat with you constantly you'd be her girlfriend, and she wouldn't be screwing you. Be a man, not a chatty Cathy. Hope this helps!
 
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