"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Talking on phone with girls

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I always feel like im gonna have nothing to talk about when im on phone with girls. I ****ing hate that feeling.

So, I always make myself look busy and need to hang up within less than 5 mins, but, in fact, I ain't do any things at all at that moment.

What are you suggestions to help me solve this problem?

What is the optimum length for phone talk with girls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is there someone you talk to that you always crack jokes with? Always have a laugh when you're talking to them about anything?

Next time you plan to call the girl, call that person first. It will help keep you in the same mood when you're conversing with the girl after.
 
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i don't like talkin on the phone that much unless its for work. i always find myself only arranging dates on the phone and tell them i have to go after 5 minutes. depends how much i like the girl though. the most i'd go for is maybe 20 minutes and thats rare. more likely to happen in long term relationships.
 
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Having an extended phone conversation with a girl is dumb. Keep it short and sweet when setting up the date.
 
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Yup, pretty much the only reason to talk to a girl on a phone is to setup a meeting. Keep it short and sweet. Open with some small talk then get right to the point. After that, tell her you'll see her then and hang up. You'll have plenty of time for conversation when you meet her in person.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1. So, is it okay if I act busy everytime she called me?

I just don't like talking on the phone, but I can do the convo things much

better when meeting in the real person.

2. And what should I do if she doesn't return my call even though

I am certain that she is into me cuz I have sex with her two times already?

3. At the moment, I am starting to infatuate in her. How can I stop this feeling?
 
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