"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Talking/Meeting with this girl

Bayern Anhaenger

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I don't think this has been covered yet/asked yet.

I know this girl from the Net, her brother is friends with my cousin, and I've seen her here and there. I have been talking to her on AIM, and, that's been, well, fine. I was just wondering if you guys have any advice for me regarding me asking her to like, do something (like... the equivalent of a date, but, not really a date, a get together[?]).

aLSO, any other ideas regarding talking to her on the 'Net through AIM?

thanks all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This has been answered in the DJ Bible. I'm starting out my DJ lifestyle so I'm not sure if I'm of any help to you but I will try.

What I hear is don't talk too much or too long on the internet, about 15-20 minutes tops.

For the "date" say to her "Lets go get some coffee" or something along those lines. This last girl I was intrested in I took her to shoot my potato gun, it worked so just do whatever sounds fun.

You don't want to say "would you like too", instead say "lets go blah blah blah" It makes you sound more confident. This is what I do and it works for me, hope you have success with it. Good luck.

To everyone else, does this sound right?

Mooney
 

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Originally posted by JMooney5115
This last girl I was intrested in I took her to shoot my potato gun, it worked so just do whatever sounds fun.
Mooney
I have a small off subject question,. What is a potato gun. I have heard people talking about them before but I have no idea what they are. But if everyone is interested in them they must be pretty cool.

I am sorry Bayern Anhaenger I have no advice for you.
 

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First think of something to do. Than call that girl and tell her you wanna do what you thought of doing!
 

moldingcheese

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I really hate talking to girls I like on AIM. U dont c their face nor hear their voice. U have no clue what shes doing at the other end and they have plenty of time to think bout what they are saying so its almost impossible to tell what they are really thinking. And also, no chance for kino.:p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bayern Anhaenger

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yeah, molding, but, like, so, shoudl i try to talk to her more often on the phone... or, at some place? i mean, it's fun to chat, but, like, for casual converstaion it kinda is tough to say "i wanna chat, let's go to *place* and talk" ya knoW?
 

penkitten

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point being if you talk to her non stop online she will think you have no life.
 
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