"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Talking/Meeting with this girl

Bayern Anhaenger

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I don't think this has been covered yet/asked yet.

I know this girl from the Net, her brother is friends with my cousin, and I've seen her here and there. I have been talking to her on AIM, and, that's been, well, fine. I was just wondering if you guys have any advice for me regarding me asking her to like, do something (like... the equivalent of a date, but, not really a date, a get together[?]).

aLSO, any other ideas regarding talking to her on the 'Net through AIM?

thanks all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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xenten

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This has been answered in the DJ Bible. I'm starting out my DJ lifestyle so I'm not sure if I'm of any help to you but I will try.

What I hear is don't talk too much or too long on the internet, about 15-20 minutes tops.

For the "date" say to her "Lets go get some coffee" or something along those lines. This last girl I was intrested in I took her to shoot my potato gun, it worked so just do whatever sounds fun.

You don't want to say "would you like too", instead say "lets go blah blah blah" It makes you sound more confident. This is what I do and it works for me, hope you have success with it. Good luck.

To everyone else, does this sound right?

Mooney
 

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Originally posted by JMooney5115
This last girl I was intrested in I took her to shoot my potato gun, it worked so just do whatever sounds fun.
Mooney
I have a small off subject question,. What is a potato gun. I have heard people talking about them before but I have no idea what they are. But if everyone is interested in them they must be pretty cool.

I am sorry Bayern Anhaenger I have no advice for you.
 

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First think of something to do. Than call that girl and tell her you wanna do what you thought of doing!
 

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I really hate talking to girls I like on AIM. U dont c their face nor hear their voice. U have no clue what shes doing at the other end and they have plenty of time to think bout what they are saying so its almost impossible to tell what they are really thinking. And also, no chance for kino.:p
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bayern Anhaenger

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yeah, molding, but, like, so, shoudl i try to talk to her more often on the phone... or, at some place? i mean, it's fun to chat, but, like, for casual converstaion it kinda is tough to say "i wanna chat, let's go to *place* and talk" ya knoW?
 

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point being if you talk to her non stop online she will think you have no life.
 
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