"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Okay, this thread has definitely helped me address some issues I had with being too shy around other people and I really appreciate it. Since I became determined to be more outgoing and sociable, I've been involved in some study groups like every week, I've been hanging out with all my friends at lunch, and even got a date to prom a couple of weeks ago. However, my one weakness still seems to be talking to girls in a group. I'm fine with talking to a bunch of guys in a group or if I talk to a girl alone. There is this one girl in particular that I have trouble talking to in a big group. I'm really attracted to her and I went paddle boating with her a week ago and we had a one on one conversation for about 40 minutes during the boat ride. I got her to lauph a lot and I'm pretty sure she enjoyed herself. However, now that we're back in school everything seems different. I miss that feeling of just her being next to me and talking to each other one on one. She sits at my lunch table, but the conversations are nothing like what we had on the paddle boat and things seem more tense with all my friends and her friends sitting by us. What can I do to overcome this weakness?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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some ussues I had with being too shy around other people and I really appreciate it.
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^^ WDF??



Repeat after me: I am Gay unless i talk to girls, i am straight unless i suck a ****, i am bisexual unless i sleep with cats. Repeat this 56 times and then approach a girl and tell her this, they will be pleased!

^^^ Everything i wrote above ignore it, its my advise for GAY people.


Ok, there is nothing to be scared man, imagine you were with boys in a group standing and chatting, and this HB9 would come and start talking to you, wouldnt you start to sweat, and be a ****ing mess?? Noo unless you are shy!!!!


You just come to them and say "WHAZZUP BABES!! Hows it going, i noticed some of you are using steroids to enlarge your tities, i need to enlarge mine, help me out here!!!"

^Say that to them!! Trust me!! Tell me tomorow how the conversation went on!!



CYA LATERS!!


^^ This was profesionals advise, keep it safe and roling everywhere you go.
 
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Shydude is not retarded he is giving you advice your just too scared to face the truth,loser thats all I have to say.
 
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aDPRESTON no need to take things to seriosuly here, and thanks of rsupport dreamx, We are all a family.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dreamx said:
Shydude is not retarded he is giving you advice your just too scared to face the truth,loser thats all I have to say.
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What advice did he give me? Can you point that out? All I saw was horrible grammar followed by some baloney that really didn't answer my question at all.
 
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Did you flirt at all for the whole 40 MINUTES?!?!?

You ****ed up.

Besides that, Shydude is retarded but that's where he is right.. You can't think and take things so seriously.
 
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