i got a girl, who wants me to talk dirty during sex, but in a clean way. i am used to girls wanting me to pulling their hair, calling them a slut and *****, stuff like that. but my girl now doesnt want me to call her names. so i just say "do you like getting ****ed, etc..", but i always end up saying "you f ucking skank" and she gets pissed. is there something i can say that wont offend her, but its dirty at the same time?
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talking dirty?
- Thread starter strey
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Every girl wants to be slutty, no girl want's to be labeled a slut.
Some girls like dirty talk..some don't. Also remember it's not what you say, it's how you say it. If you say it with passion, like your a starving man and she's your first meal, like you really desire her...then she will respond. If you say it in some boring "Fvck me you hore!" , like your using her...its gonna turn her off. Make her feel like you want HER not just her vag.
Talking dirty is just like sex..you start off slow and ease into the rough stuff. (also don't ask her to do something, tell her, you should show strong leadership in the bedroom, but still be responsive to her needs...whatever..getting sidetracked)
Start off with something pedestrian.....whisper it in her ear sometimes, make it intimate. (In the beginning replace b1tch with Baby and Slut with Sexy for the win. Never use the word kunt, nothing sexy or kinky about that word from my experience.)
"damn that feels good baby"
"I like that"
"I love the way you do that"
"you taste so good"
"I want you"
"turn it over baby" (telling, not asking)
Lead her into the dirty names...."Who's my sexy/bad girl?"
Graduate to curse words and rough talk....
"damn your pvssy feels good"
"throw it back baby" (especially when your hitting it from the back, make her do some work too!
"I love looking at your ass, I'm gonna smack it hard" "Smack!
"Yah I love the way you suck my dyck, like that baby"
Put her on top and tell her "Ride that dyck, work that sh1t girl"
Lead her into the dirty names some more...."Your such a little freak, I like that" (always use positive reinforcement)
If she's being super responsive (and by responsive I mean fvcking you like a seasoned pornstar in her prime) then start to go hardcore...
"Oh ****. I love fvcking you"
"Yah I'm gonna fvck the shyt out of you."
"Suck my dyck baby, I'm gonna *** on your tits!"
"I'm going to fvck you in the ass, come here girl!"
Lead her into the dirty names some more....Whisper to her.."Your my dirty little slvt, only for me, right baby?" for example. Or when your railing her hard, and she's moaning like banshee getting fvcked by belzebub then say some shtt like "take that kawk, *****, I love the way you ****"
That's been the only way I've ever gotten away with calling a girl a slut or a b1tch. At the height of sex when it's just crazy,in a oops did I say that...who cares we are both about to come! sort of way.
I've had it backfire on me before..you gotta judge the girl your with. I usually end up going with Bad Girl or some variation of take it like a bad girl, or take it like a dirty girl baby if I sense slvt, b1tch or hore is not gonna work with her. Honestly, I've completely given up on using those words...
I usually don't ask questions like "do you like that?" or "is it good" unless its obvious to even Helen Keller that she must like it. Because if it's not good, she just had to lie. And when lying it throws her out of the mood. Sometimes it takes a woman a while to warm up properly and relax enough...questions can bring pressure and make it that much harder.
I almost never ask anything like "who's pvssy is this" cause honestly, your just renting time in it, you can't own it. But every now and then I will throw out of "this is my pvssy" and lay claim to it. Just for fun. I'll say it while I'm trying to drill for oil in the bottom of her vag.
and FYI, look a chic in the eye when your boning her and talking sh1t to her (if the position allows eye contact of course). When you look women in the eye it makes them feel connected to you, it makes them feel alive in this present moment and enhances the entire experience. It makes them feel vulnerable and desired at the same time.
Good luck guys...if any of this helps post back and let the other guys know..if it blows up on you and doesn't work let us know to. Everything doesn't always work on everyone, judge for yourself if you think it will fly with the girl your with.
Some girls like dirty talk..some don't. Also remember it's not what you say, it's how you say it. If you say it with passion, like your a starving man and she's your first meal, like you really desire her...then she will respond. If you say it in some boring "Fvck me you hore!" , like your using her...its gonna turn her off. Make her feel like you want HER not just her vag.
Talking dirty is just like sex..you start off slow and ease into the rough stuff. (also don't ask her to do something, tell her, you should show strong leadership in the bedroom, but still be responsive to her needs...whatever..getting sidetracked)
Start off with something pedestrian.....whisper it in her ear sometimes, make it intimate. (In the beginning replace b1tch with Baby and Slut with Sexy for the win. Never use the word kunt, nothing sexy or kinky about that word from my experience.)
"damn that feels good baby"
"I like that"
"I love the way you do that"
"you taste so good"
"I want you"
"turn it over baby" (telling, not asking)
Lead her into the dirty names...."Who's my sexy/bad girl?"
Graduate to curse words and rough talk....
"damn your pvssy feels good"
"throw it back baby" (especially when your hitting it from the back, make her do some work too!
"I love looking at your ass, I'm gonna smack it hard" "Smack!
"Yah I love the way you suck my dyck, like that baby"
Put her on top and tell her "Ride that dyck, work that sh1t girl"
Lead her into the dirty names some more...."Your such a little freak, I like that" (always use positive reinforcement)
If she's being super responsive (and by responsive I mean fvcking you like a seasoned pornstar in her prime) then start to go hardcore...
"Oh ****. I love fvcking you"
"Yah I'm gonna fvck the shyt out of you."
"Suck my dyck baby, I'm gonna *** on your tits!"
"I'm going to fvck you in the ass, come here girl!"
Lead her into the dirty names some more....Whisper to her.."Your my dirty little slvt, only for me, right baby?" for example. Or when your railing her hard, and she's moaning like banshee getting fvcked by belzebub then say some shtt like "take that kawk, *****, I love the way you ****"
That's been the only way I've ever gotten away with calling a girl a slut or a b1tch. At the height of sex when it's just crazy,in a oops did I say that...who cares we are both about to come! sort of way.
I've had it backfire on me before..you gotta judge the girl your with. I usually end up going with Bad Girl or some variation of take it like a bad girl, or take it like a dirty girl baby if I sense slvt, b1tch or hore is not gonna work with her. Honestly, I've completely given up on using those words...
I usually don't ask questions like "do you like that?" or "is it good" unless its obvious to even Helen Keller that she must like it. Because if it's not good, she just had to lie. And when lying it throws her out of the mood. Sometimes it takes a woman a while to warm up properly and relax enough...questions can bring pressure and make it that much harder.
I almost never ask anything like "who's pvssy is this" cause honestly, your just renting time in it, you can't own it. But every now and then I will throw out of "this is my pvssy" and lay claim to it. Just for fun. I'll say it while I'm trying to drill for oil in the bottom of her vag.
and FYI, look a chic in the eye when your boning her and talking sh1t to her (if the position allows eye contact of course). When you look women in the eye it makes them feel connected to you, it makes them feel alive in this present moment and enhances the entire experience. It makes them feel vulnerable and desired at the same time.
Good luck guys...if any of this helps post back and let the other guys know..if it blows up on you and doesn't work let us know to. Everything doesn't always work on everyone, judge for yourself if you think it will fly with the girl your with.
I like the way mine has been talking to me lately:
-Her: You were rude to me.
-Me: Why?
-Her: When I cam in you didn't ask me to sit.
-Me: Huh?
-Her: You didn't ask me to sit on your c0ck.
The other thing she's been asking me to do, when I'm fukking her, is to talk to her like, Quiet B*tch, here just take the money. Don't make any noise, B*tch, just take the money.
I don't know about that one, I'll have to come up with own version...
-Her: You were rude to me.
-Me: Why?
-Her: When I cam in you didn't ask me to sit.
-Me: Huh?
-Her: You didn't ask me to sit on your c0ck.
The other thing she's been asking me to do, when I'm fukking her, is to talk to her like, Quiet B*tch, here just take the money. Don't make any noise, B*tch, just take the money.
I don't know about that one, I'll have to come up with own version...
IamMyownMan
Don Juan
Hey Bru
Strey-maybe you should lay off the nuevo-degrading terms like skank and stick with the old classics, like dirty slut, my little hore, or as my friend Captain Catfish used to say- you foul mouthed bytch. Ok, that last one might be over the line for some, but if you are as slick as a Catfish you can pull it off.
Me thinks that you fahking skank rubs her in the wrong way. You'd probably be better off just jamming your middle finger up her culo and asking her if "you like that you dirty little slut".
I think you are going a little overboard with the degradation if you are not affirming her self-image with a term of endearment. She may like to be treated like schit by you, but you don't have to go bragging about it.
My Dirty Little Slut can make her feel like she is just the right amount of kink for you, whereas "You fahking Skank" leaves no question in her mind to where she stands with you.
You can probably work her up to being more comfortable with more degrading terms, but she will have a line and if you cross it you may not finish the act.
So instead of lambasting your lady friend with relatively new and targeted terms like SKANK, stick to the tried and true classics like slut and whoare. Of course if you want to degrade her and turn her on you can try a latin classic like PUTA where you may catch her off guard with your newly demonstrated foreign language skills. Be forewarned, it may backfire when she looks the term up in the dictionary.
It's all about pace though. You can't go from sticking it in to "You fahking Skank" in the two pumps that it takes you to finish and expect to turn her on.
Strey-maybe you should lay off the nuevo-degrading terms like skank and stick with the old classics, like dirty slut, my little hore, or as my friend Captain Catfish used to say- you foul mouthed bytch. Ok, that last one might be over the line for some, but if you are as slick as a Catfish you can pull it off.
Me thinks that you fahking skank rubs her in the wrong way. You'd probably be better off just jamming your middle finger up her culo and asking her if "you like that you dirty little slut".
I think you are going a little overboard with the degradation if you are not affirming her self-image with a term of endearment. She may like to be treated like schit by you, but you don't have to go bragging about it.
My Dirty Little Slut can make her feel like she is just the right amount of kink for you, whereas "You fahking Skank" leaves no question in her mind to where she stands with you.
You can probably work her up to being more comfortable with more degrading terms, but she will have a line and if you cross it you may not finish the act.
So instead of lambasting your lady friend with relatively new and targeted terms like SKANK, stick to the tried and true classics like slut and whoare. Of course if you want to degrade her and turn her on you can try a latin classic like PUTA where you may catch her off guard with your newly demonstrated foreign language skills. Be forewarned, it may backfire when she looks the term up in the dictionary.
It's all about pace though. You can't go from sticking it in to "You fahking Skank" in the two pumps that it takes you to finish and expect to turn her on.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Or just don't say anything and beat till she's out cold and slobbered on the pillow
I could not agree more with what was said above it is not what you say but how you say it. Get over the thought you may say something stupid or worry what she is gonna think, you are already inside her and sleeping with her. Give her what she wants. Look into her eyes and say whatever you want. Watch a few porno's see what happens.
Always announce when you are about to *** and tell her how good she feels. Tell her how hot she looks, grunt a little bit, tell her how you have been waiting for this moument all day, thinking about ****ing her etc.. Do not ask her what she wants you to say because then its just you saying what she wants to hear. Be orginall this is a great problem to have guys..
Always announce when you are about to *** and tell her how good she feels. Tell her how hot she looks, grunt a little bit, tell her how you have been waiting for this moument all day, thinking about ****ing her etc.. Do not ask her what she wants you to say because then its just you saying what she wants to hear. Be orginall this is a great problem to have guys..