"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GaryUranga

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ok yesterday I was about to start this experiment I was going to talk to this girl everyday for a bit over a week, the girl had mid interest and the point was that I wanted to figure out how much talkign should be done, Im trying to find the balance between not talkign at all being busy and having more important things to do with your life than talkign to her and the other side talkign a lot and getting "close"

well I pretty much effed up the experiment cause thta same night she was tellign me she wanted to sex me which isnt bad at all.. point being I didnt get an answer for what I really wanted to know.

so the question is how much talking is the right balance I was getting better results before when I was chattign theese girls up borderlining on being needy even sometimes being needy from talkign too much than I am right now acting busy and talking evry now and then and just "gaming" on the small period Im talkign to them
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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aliasguy

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GaryUranga said:
ok yesterday I was about to start this experiment I was going to talk to this girl everyday for a bit over a week, the girl had mid interest and the point was that I wanted to figure out how much talkign should be done, Im trying to find the balance between not talkign at all being busy and having more important things to do with your life than talkign to her and the other side talkign a lot and getting "close"

well I pretty much effed up the experiment cause thta same night she was tellign me she wanted to sex me which isnt bad at all.. point being I didnt get an answer for what I really wanted to know.

so the question is how much talking is the right balance I was getting better results before when I was chattign theese girls up borderlining on being needy even sometimes being needy from talkign too much than I am right now acting busy and talking evry now and then and just "gaming" on the small period Im talkign to them

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So let me get this straight..... you're unhappy because some chick f*cked up your half-baked "experiment" because she wanted to "sex" you?

Talk, don't talk, whatever...... dammit, man, f*ck THIS one, and THEN do your stupid experiment.

You're kidding, right?
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