"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

talking balance

G

GaryUranga

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2006
Messages
835
Reaction score
7
ok yesterday I was about to start this experiment I was going to talk to this girl everyday for a bit over a week, the girl had mid interest and the point was that I wanted to figure out how much talkign should be done, Im trying to find the balance between not talkign at all being busy and having more important things to do with your life than talkign to her and the other side talkign a lot and getting "close"

well I pretty much effed up the experiment cause thta same night she was tellign me she wanted to sex me which isnt bad at all.. point being I didnt get an answer for what I really wanted to know.

so the question is how much talking is the right balance I was getting better results before when I was chattign theese girls up borderlining on being needy even sometimes being needy from talkign too much than I am right now acting busy and talking evry now and then and just "gaming" on the small period Im talkign to them
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

A

aliasguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 10, 2007
Messages
757
Reaction score
5
GaryUranga said:
ok yesterday I was about to start this experiment I was going to talk to this girl everyday for a bit over a week, the girl had mid interest and the point was that I wanted to figure out how much talkign should be done, Im trying to find the balance between not talkign at all being busy and having more important things to do with your life than talkign to her and the other side talkign a lot and getting "close"

well I pretty much effed up the experiment cause thta same night she was tellign me she wanted to sex me which isnt bad at all.. point being I didnt get an answer for what I really wanted to know.

so the question is how much talking is the right balance I was getting better results before when I was chattign theese girls up borderlining on being needy even sometimes being needy from talkign too much than I am right now acting busy and talking evry now and then and just "gaming" on the small period Im talkign to them
Click to expand...

-
-
-
So let me get this straight..... you're unhappy because some chick f*cked up your half-baked "experiment" because she wanted to "sex" you?

Talk, don't talk, whatever...... dammit, man, f*ck THIS one, and THEN do your stupid experiment.

You're kidding, right?
-
-
-
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top