JohnChops
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So just curious if you discuss like places where you had sex with one of your plates, without having fvcked them yet , would you find that a turn off?
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
talking about sex with one of your plates
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Poonani Maker
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Not necessarily, unless you Talk about the specific girl you've fvcked. Women Do Not want to hear about another woman you've dated, fvcked, married etc. while you're with her, just as you wouldn't want to hear about her past (but by all means let her rant as it gives Clues that you can use later on her to your benefit) like that. It's best to Not talk about other women. They all seem to do a 180 on me when I bring up other women, NO MATTER what I say about the other women. If she asks if I have a girlfriend or had a girlfriend or was married, I'll tell her you don't wanna hear that? I'd rather not talk about old news, how about 'this' about you? You must be entirely focused on her listening not wandering your eyes to other women while with her (huge no-no). They want to feel special, like it's just you two Only in the room or when out. Make her Feel like you're Really listening to her (bullsh!t). I know it's hard and like a waste of time, but in order to get into her pants, you must play the game and let her chirp.
JohnChops
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I was more getting at talking about sex in general. For example places you have had sex before. Obviously never bring up past relationships that shold be rule numereo uno. But I was more getting at the topic of sex. Not person specific.