JohnChops
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So just curious if you discuss like places where you had sex with one of your plates, without having fvcked them yet , would you find that a turn off?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
talking about sex with one of your plates
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Poonani Maker
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Not necessarily, unless you Talk about the specific girl you've fvcked. Women Do Not want to hear about another woman you've dated, fvcked, married etc. while you're with her, just as you wouldn't want to hear about her past (but by all means let her rant as it gives Clues that you can use later on her to your benefit) like that. It's best to Not talk about other women. They all seem to do a 180 on me when I bring up other women, NO MATTER what I say about the other women. If she asks if I have a girlfriend or had a girlfriend or was married, I'll tell her you don't wanna hear that? I'd rather not talk about old news, how about 'this' about you? You must be entirely focused on her listening not wandering your eyes to other women while with her (huge no-no). They want to feel special, like it's just you two Only in the room or when out. Make her Feel like you're Really listening to her (bullsh!t). I know it's hard and like a waste of time, but in order to get into her pants, you must play the game and let her chirp.
JohnChops
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I was more getting at talking about sex in general. For example places you have had sex before. Obviously never bring up past relationships that shold be rule numereo uno. But I was more getting at the topic of sex. Not person specific.