Talking about Sex with a Shy Girl

[thursday]

At the start of a more serious relationship, been having sex a lot with my gf, but we tend to do much of the same stuff. I really want to experiment more, but she is quite a shy, sensitive girl.

She had a few bad experiences in the past and doesn't seem to like talking about sex. So, it's hard to know whether to straight out ask her to do stuff. She says there are certain things (like doggy style, BJ) she just doesn't like. Obviously, a greater variety of positions would make it even better, but bring it up with her is tricky.

 

[achtungiono]

Have you tried talking to her about this?
If you can't communicate with eachother i would move on.
Also if she doesn't fulfil your sexual needs (bj etc) then why are you staying with this girl?

 

[joekerr31]

she probably doesnt like doggy style cuz you can see her ashole and because of queefing. because otherwise most women love doggy (they get deeper penetration).

as for bjs. well, some chics just aren't turn on by sucking it. my experience however has been that if they are really in to you that they are more than happy to do it just to please you.

as for your girl being an shy in the bedroom. thats ridiculous. either she has hang ups over sex and is only have sex with you becuase she thinks if she doesnt you will leave her. or you suck in bed and as a result she doesn't look forward to sex because its basically 10 minutes of humping her like a sac of wet potatoes.

shy girls might be shy in the sac the FIRST time. but after that they are the same as anyone else, if not even wilder.

you have failed to bring out the woman in your woman. and i mean no disrespect when i say this, but i doubt you and your girl are over 25. this sounds much more like a 16-21 kind of problem.

 

[thursday]

she probably doesnt like doggy style cuz you can see her ashole and because of queefing. because otherwise most women love doggy (they get deeper penetration).

as for bjs. well, some chics just aren't turn on by sucking it. my experience however has been that if they are really in to you that they are more than happy to do it just to please you.

as for your girl being an shy in the bedroom. thats ridiculous. either she has hang ups over sex and is only have sex with you becuase she thinks if she doesnt you will leave her. or you suck in bed and as a result she doesn't look forward to sex because its basically 10 minutes of humping her like a sac of wet potatoes.

shy girls might be shy in the sac the FIRST time. but after that they are the same as anyone else, if not even wilder.

you have failed to bring out the woman in your woman. and i mean no disrespect when i say this, but i doubt you and your girl are over 25. this sounds much more like a 16-21 kind of problem.

Criticismm taken on board. Any suggestions on how I can bring out the woman?

 

[droogie]

Never met a chick who didn't...

like doggiestyle. In fact very chick I've ever been with loves it.
Have you asked her if she's even tried it?

 

[acewhole]

At this point, it does sound like she has hang ups. It's delicate work but you may be able to help the situation. Next time you manage to bring the topic up, try getting her to be the one who suggests something "different". Maybe that will increase her motivation and comfort to try new things with you. In my experience, people like to be constructively challenged.

For what it's worth, in my experience girls like doggie. I had one girl though that would complain that it 'went too deep' unless I took a bit of an angle in the thrust. Different strokes for different folks.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Criticismm taken on board. Any suggestions on how I can bring out the woman?

When you're not in bed or even near a bed, ask her about her romantic fantasies. It'll start off slow like a sappy romance novel with Fabio on the cover but if you ease her into it, you can eventually get to the good, Playboy Forum type stuff. Keep in mind that most women enjoy erotica more so than porn.