"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jophil28

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Colossus said:
I can always tell when a guy is desperate when he starts trying to micromanage little game issues with a chick he shouldn't be wasting time with in the first place. I think you should step back and honestly ask yourself if you can do better.

Don't cast ye pearls before swine.
YEP ^^.
And those desperate moves on his part are an inevitable consequence of a poor quality relationship in which his IL is higher than hers....hence his attempts to "manage" her into his frame (which was weak or nonexistent in the first place) .
THink of it this way. IF a woman is really into you and is behaving accordingly, there is no need for the guy to manage or try to interfere in her personal life.
Attempts to manage or control are rooted in fear of loss.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr. Me

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>> So she pretty much sent that text to me in the view that I'm a friend then? >>

Not even.
 
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