"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jophil28

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Colossus said:
I can always tell when a guy is desperate when he starts trying to micromanage little game issues with a chick he shouldn't be wasting time with in the first place. I think you should step back and honestly ask yourself if you can do better.

Don't cast ye pearls before swine.
YEP ^^.
And those desperate moves on his part are an inevitable consequence of a poor quality relationship in which his IL is higher than hers....hence his attempts to "manage" her into his frame (which was weak or nonexistent in the first place) .
THink of it this way. IF a woman is really into you and is behaving accordingly, there is no need for the guy to manage or try to interfere in her personal life.
Attempts to manage or control are rooted in fear of loss.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr. Me

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>> So she pretty much sent that text to me in the view that I'm a friend then? >>

Not even.
 
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