"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Talkin bout love

ARrocket

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What are your thoughts on talking about love with women? Such as...whether or not she has ever been in love, whether or not she believes in soulmates, etc. And by women, I mean women that you are interested in, not platonic friends.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I talked about it with a girl the same day we met. She told me she has never been in love but could not describe what she thinks it is. I would prefer that to a psycho that has been in love with a few people before.

And I just told her that I never have been, and never would be. Wishful thinking maybe. She said that was sad, and that I would be able to love one day. And she fell in love with me for a while even, but after I was a total a-hole it has worn off I think.
 

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what would be the point of talking to them about it?
 

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terran2k said:
what would be the point of talking to them about it?
It would definitely stir up an emotional response. Whether it is one that will help my cause or not is what I'm unsure of. If this question were posed to me, I'd probably say no, don't go into that stuff, especially if it's not an LTR type thing and you just wanna bang her. I'm just wondering if anybody has any experience with this sort of thing.
 
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