"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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when a girl starts talkin about ex's or other guys........what are some good techniques to get the convo in another direction?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If that happens to me, I usually deflect the comment with a brief acknowledgement, then I gently but firmly steer the conversation in a different direction with a QUESTION. This will make her more willing to make the transition from one topic to another, and it also makes it apparent to her that you're willing to listen, just not willing to listen to her talk about other guys.
 
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Originally posted by Kraken
If that happens to me, I usually deflect the comment with a brief acknowledgement, then I gently but firmly steer the conversation in a different direction with a QUESTION. This will make her more willing to make the transition from one topic to another, and it also makes it apparent to her that you're willing to listen, just not willing to listen to her talk about other guys.
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Yeah very good advise. Dont let her start talking about other guys, I once did and the girl didnt fukcing stop. I ended up telling her that all this talk could not make me Jealous because I could not be Jealous. Well, after months and months of her trying, it pretty much destroyed our relationship and she did succeed. Make her stop STRAIGHT AWAY, if she doesnt, this is one situation, and I am not a firm beleiver of this policy as many of the guys on this board, but, NEXT!!
 
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It also depends on the ex talk. One chick I was recently with told me a pretty damn funny story about an ex of hers (he turned out to be gay). Also, since I had met her through an online site she told me about a couple disasters she had.
 
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