"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Talkin 2 a girl on Myspace

Doe Boii

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alright im tryin to holla at dis girl i just found out was single...thing is i only talk to her over myspace but i dont know what to say to her to gimme her number and it feels kinda weird myspacin her that way. how can i tell if she likes me and how do i let her know w/o comin off as geeky, or over atrracted
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Real

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"yo baby gimme your cellie, i wanna hit u up later when i get a chance, my # is XXX XXX XXXX so u'll kno its me"
 

thatguyjamalx

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run routine after routine on her,some shotgun negs, build more attraction and comfort and she'll hand it over, thats what I did, but it did take a week to # close. That place is packed to the brim full of freaks and pedos.
 
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