"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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****talkers at uni?

Iceberg_Itsover

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Sup fellow dj's.
I want some advice here.
I'm currently in University 21 yo
Situation:
Theres this subject im in that i am interested in this chick, she's in my group for the class( we had to form a group for the class). During the first few weeks we talk and stuff and there are times we exchange eye contact and i sometimes see her staring at me and stuff so i'm assuming she has some interest in me as well. During the next few weeks however there is this guy that rocks up to class and joins our group, his uglier than me, shorter than me, and wears clothies that only bulky guys wear even though he is a skinny little **** and it does not suit him. This guy is not a alpha male, and i am sure i am more superior than him. However, he talks alot.... like crazily alot, and so i dont have much oppurtunity to talk let alone anyone else in the group. He keeps tlaking to the chick im interested in and interrupt my conversations and stuff. I too now think he is interested in this chick....

Any advice on what i should do? i mean i cant out talk this ****talker guy... I would could just bash him or something but dont think that would help much...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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B-Real

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Maybe you should try and talk to her outside of the group. That way when you do meet up in the group you and her would already have something in common.

What i mean is you both have talked outside of the group so its like you already have a leg up on this dude. You and her could have this "unspoken" realtionship that the other guy doesn't have.
 

bigshot

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LOL, uve got to give the small dude some points 4 tryin his luck with this chick, giv it a lil while longer and he'll know that he ent gettin **** from her.
thats wen u jump in and give it all u got and show her (and the F**Khead) that ur the alpha male!
if things dont work out, then go knok him out. :trouble:
 
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