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Talked to a HB8 (marketing director) - FB her now or wait again?

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This forum is for learning, bettering ourselves and experimenting what works and what doesn't to build a harem, to get a quality girl to commit too or whatever your reason may be.

Anyway I got another question for you guys since i'm considering reaching out on facebook again, this time I build rapport with the op girl.

It's about the marketing director, she's about 30-31, master educated study, blonde, very nice body and a lovely smile.

She flirts with me for months, when she passes, she always greets me, winks, smiles. Basically she notices me and shows IoI's.

I flirt back, smile back, greet back for months but I just didn't pull the trigger.

A couple of weeks ago she turned it up a notch by walking past my table, going to the soda machine, glancing to me with a big smile and walking back to greet me.

Today I took action.

Convo went like this:

Me: Hey can I ask you a question?
Her: yeah sure
Me: What do You do here?
Her: I am the marketing director of this school dudududud and you?
Me: Nice I worked in a foreign country for two years now Im back to finish study
Her: Nice
Me: You always walk by with your cute smile but I never knew what you do here
Her: Hahahah okay..
her: you joined us once to a event once right?
Me: nop You got the wrong Guy haha(def not me) *weird?
Me: so What do You like to do?
Her: travel, go out, go to the beach, Im a women so women things
Her: jeez What a questions lol
Me: I noticed You on the beach in x location once haha
Her: that’s possible
Me: Im sure with a wink
Me: Nice, since I never noticed You downtown I wanted to know where You go out
Her: yeah I dont go on regular saturdays only When theres something fun to do
Me: Aight sounds good
Me: Well see You around
Her: yeah goodluck on your study

She was a bit in a hurry, laughing and smiling but she wasnt leaning over or staying kinda trying to go on her way I think..

So I couldnt ask for her number, she was too much pointing her body to the other side so I didnt go for the number close..

Not sure what to think but it seemed like she really enjoyed the convo with the smiles All the way.

So 15 mins later she walks by my table again when she left the building. I was getting a sandwich damnit... I saw her glance at me again when I was ordering my sandwich. I was planning on asking her what her name is and her number when I she would pass again but faith decided that I missed her.

Notice: She never leaves the building from this point when shes done working I noticed that she always takes the backdoor. im pretty sure she wanted to pass me again, I see it as interest.

Could I reach out on facebook message?

I did not ask her name (i know it though) so idk...

Could come across as needy, creepy because we talked for about 2 minutes?

On the other side, I did it a bunch of times in the same exact situation and it lead to dates a couple of times without problems, or girls giving their phone numbers (ofcourse after rapport).

Otherwise Ill have to wait another 2 weeks (schoolbreak again) to see her and do it in real life.

What's wise DJs?
 
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Why do you over think things so much and how do you get oneitis so quickly?

You are over analyzing everything.....with all of these chicks that you post about. Ask her out for drinks, let me get your number and move on. Yes, no, or any other no excuse.
 

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Why do you over think things so much and how do you get oneitis so quickly?

You are over analyzing everything.....with all of these chicks that you post about. Ask her out for drinks, let me get your number and move on. Yes, no, or any other no excuse.
I know, should I do it true fb now or just When i see her? All i ask Dude.
 

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Yes so basically, no fb just Wait till the next momentum?
 

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No fb until after a date. Too risky. She might see something on fb thst turns her off or she might draw the wrong conclusion. Get her on a date
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No fb until after a date. Too risky. She might see something on fb thst turns her off or she might draw the wrong conclusion. Get her on a date
Thanks for all your patience, I appreciate it. I need to work on killing neediness and Some inner game. On the rest Im super strong. Building attraction, social talk, kino and being cexual. Im too eager, two natural Dj friends told me “your the most confident Guy i know but your waaay to eager, kill that and your the ultimate casanova”
 
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