"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Talked to a girl..found out about ltr?

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Well...met up with a girl after lab...she seemed pretty nice in the lab, but a little focused on her studies.

Talked to her for about an hour, and really ended up liking her as a person. Of course she drops the fiance bomb about 45 minutes into the convo, but i didn't get too flustured.

Is there some sort of difference between the way people talk to u if they want to be friends, or if they're really interested? I think i havea hard time reading people's interest levels right now.

doesn't matter though...met a cool person and got some convo experience. Also talked to another person from my dorm that i never really got the chance to talk to.


Good day...but has me wondering a bit.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Personally, it's extremely hard to read the way people talk to you to determine interest unless you've been seeing and talking and hanging out with the person for quite a while. Unless of course it's super freakin obvious that she's into you.

Don't think about thess things too much so early into knowing a person. Thinking about it in general is also not good, but I know it's a tough thing to get rid off. Even I think about it now and then. Just don't allow it to control you.
 
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she sounds like a sunshine girl. Sunshine girl: being a girl thats really really friendly to guys but has no intention of ever doing anything or being anything more then a friend.

She made it clear from day one with you thats shes involved with someone else. Its best to not get attached so quickly...its crazy that you know this girl for a day and she already has you wondering about her life.

Be friendly and when possible keep your distance. You dont need other girls seeing you with her thinking you two have something going on. I would pursue a different girl in lab.

Dont give your heart away so fast. Protect that shyt.

Good luck friend

John
 
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Well it was good practice. So look at it that way - there is no romantic opportunities here until she doesn't have the BF.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You've blown it. You've built up feelings and your analysing the whole thing. Think james bond! At the end of the drink you coulda said hay whats your number i'll give you a call. then she would have said x answer. If theres any objection, say come on it's just so we can meet up for a harmless chat.

But yeah...You've blown it.

Screw what did she mean and take action people ffs
 
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did you see the ring ??

you could have taken an interest and asked qusetions about the fiance ,

and of course one of my fav David D comments , well i bet you've got some hot friends you can introduce me too , gold comment
 
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