"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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talked to 2 hot girls today, how should i play this?

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ok usually the scenario is i have to make my own introduction/pick up but on this occasion it was different. my female friend went to say hi to 1 of her friends on a table on campus so i went over with her and realised the friend she was saying hi to i knew too through her last time, we had a joke and everything and he had a hot girl on his table who immediately showed interest in me by saying she loved people from my country. she just seemed so excited to see me/meet me it was a bit strange cos im not used to this level of interest so soon.

then i told her about my families origins and she went on to say how we'd get on so well together, she kino'd me a few times touching my arm incessantly i think its pretty clear she likes me. shes really pretty but her body is average.

scenario 2 is another hot girl came by who knew the guy and luckily for me the only seat available was next to me so i started chatting to her, she had a headache so i made a joke which made her laugh then made a comment about how she spoke as it was similar to mine, she started to laugh and play with her hair.. seemed to be all good so far, and even better the other girl who i was talking to previously who was sitting next to her started to get really jealous but not to the extent where she'd interrupt my convo with this new girl but she wouldnt make eye contact with me and her body language suggested she was seething with jealousy when she did interact with the other hot girl.

i couldnt believe my luck, however with this new hot girl given the scenario that we were on a table of about 7 people it was difficult to use any material i would normally use as everyone else would hear in what we were saying, it got to stage where i think i was showing her too much attention rather than pretending to be bored and disinterested and try to bring in the 1st hot girl back in so that the new hot girl was in the middle and i was talking around her to get to the 1st one.

i think this may have been a good jealousy tactic if i did that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cos in advertently talking to this new hot girl made the 1st 1 jealous and had i showed disinterest with the 2nd after few mins convo, would the 2nd 1 start to feel jealous too cos i took away my attention which shes prob not used to?

i did notice the 2nd hot girl seemed to switch from being happy laughing and playful with her hair to becoming more just polite as if she was LJBF'ing me.

i didnt know what to do at the time.. cos i didnt have anything witty or funny to say to make her feel attraction.

should i next time i see her act disinterested?

i feel as if its too late already cos i dont know if i subcommunicated interest to her cos a lot of our convo was boring stuff given the circumstances of who was around, so next time i see her probably with a friend maybe i should use jealousy plot to raise interest.

anyway what's done is done, how should i be with her next time i see her?

also these 2 girls didnt know each other previous to today so may see each other as rivals, although 1 wants me and the other i dont think does.

the 2nd 1 knows shes hot and u could tell this by how she interacted with everyone or the guy she knew in convo as if 'oh im so perfect im better than the rest of the people around just a little bit' not in such an obvious way but i can tell she thought she was a little bit better cos she was hot.
 

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is the pick up when you are on campus and introduced via friends slower than the normal pick up?
 
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