"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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talkd with the girl for ever, and spaced on the number, waht now?

Zaraza

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Hey guys


So this girl was takin a test in a nother classroom for the same class, and i needed to get a quiz finshed, so my teacher sent me there.

Shes a 8 or 9 outa 10, and just began talkin to her, apparantly shes just out of a relationship just like me, and we chatted about everything. She mentioned feelin lonely at times, which i backed her up on and said that that does happen, but made her smile and pulled her out of a upset mood. The thing is, i shouldve been like, hey whats your number?
"why"

"well if you ever feel lonely and wanna laugh, give me a call" give her mine,

and then say "and ill give you a call, why not laugh a little more, call me your "dr.phill" "

or something,

but it never came to me, i guess i was just having fun chatting with her,

should i come up to her tomorw and ask for her number? or give her mine?

whats ur opinion?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Luke_0209

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go up to her and say you really enjoyed talking with her yesterday, and just say you wann give me you're number so if you ever wanna talk 1on1 about realationships we can... the throw in ur dr.phil joke lol ;)
 

Morphiex

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ooo , you just threw a straight slowball to a majorleage hitter ,
by that i mean you gave her the choice to make you her go to emotional buddy , but if you play your cards right , you might not end up in the friend zone ....
what i mean is dont be her emotional tampong , that she pours out sad stuff she wants out of her mind to you... keep talking about the good stuff , also dont be an ass if she talks about ad stuff...


read the dj bible....
 
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