"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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talkd with the girl for ever, and spaced on the number, waht now?

Zaraza

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Hey guys


So this girl was takin a test in a nother classroom for the same class, and i needed to get a quiz finshed, so my teacher sent me there.

Shes a 8 or 9 outa 10, and just began talkin to her, apparantly shes just out of a relationship just like me, and we chatted about everything. She mentioned feelin lonely at times, which i backed her up on and said that that does happen, but made her smile and pulled her out of a upset mood. The thing is, i shouldve been like, hey whats your number?
"why"

"well if you ever feel lonely and wanna laugh, give me a call" give her mine,

and then say "and ill give you a call, why not laugh a little more, call me your "dr.phill" "

or something,

but it never came to me, i guess i was just having fun chatting with her,

should i come up to her tomorw and ask for her number? or give her mine?

whats ur opinion?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Luke_0209

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go up to her and say you really enjoyed talking with her yesterday, and just say you wann give me you're number so if you ever wanna talk 1on1 about realationships we can... the throw in ur dr.phil joke lol ;)
 

Morphiex

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ooo , you just threw a straight slowball to a majorleage hitter ,
by that i mean you gave her the choice to make you her go to emotional buddy , but if you play your cards right , you might not end up in the friend zone ....
what i mean is dont be her emotional tampong , that she pours out sad stuff she wants out of her mind to you... keep talking about the good stuff , also dont be an ass if she talks about ad stuff...


read the dj bible....
 
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