"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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talk to girls about girls?

cNfny

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is this a good or bad idea on a girl youre interested in? what damage/good would it do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Depends. Would you rather do what's right or what works?
 

cNfny

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Depends. Would you rather do what's right or what works?
which would be "what works?" not talkin about other girls?
 

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cNfny said:
is this a good or bad idea on a girl youre interested in? what damage/good would it do?
You mean tell em how the material works?
 

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Do you mean you would talk to the girl's chick friend to find out stuff about that girl before you make your move on her to maximize your chances?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i actually have a great girl-friend(female buddy:p)
she knows what she wants...she knows the way of the Dj and can actually give nice advice:)
we do almost everything together and are not attracted to eachother...im really glad with this friend;)
 

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i guess what i meant was, to talk to a girl youre interested in about other girls. i was thinkin as a way to cause jealousy, but i dont think it'd be a good idea?
 

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cNfny said:
i guess what i meant was, to talk to a girl youre interested in about other girls. i was thinkin as a way to cause jealousy, but i dont think it'd be a good idea?
What do you expect would happen?
 
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