"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Talk leading up to a kiss

Alittude

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Hey guys I will be going to a party on sat and there is this girl there that I've met a few tims. I want to know how to talk to her to make her know that I'm interested in kissing her straght away I don't want to mess around I just want to go for the kiss as soon as possible. What are some things I can say to lead up to this moment quickly?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Basically, if you isolate her soon and go kino, kissing should seem natural.

What I do a lot is just bring up the subject of kissing, and then talk about it. This can be kicked off by saying "How do you like to be kissed?". I took that line from Kevin Costner in "For Love of the Game".

Or you could use one of Juggler's lines: "If I were to kiss you, on a scale of one to ten, how would I rate your kiss?"

Endless possibilities as far as what you can say. But isolation and kino will do 90% of the work for you.
 

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Alittude said:
Hey guys I will be going to a party on sat and there is this girl there that I've met a few tims. I want to know how to talk to her to make her know that I'm interested in kissing her straght away I don't want to mess around I just want to go for the kiss as soon as possible. What are some things I can say to lead up to this moment quickly?
You: Can I kiss you?
Her: Uhm, yes.
You: Okay, I'll make sure to do that.

And then, she'll kiss you.
 

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NoNickname said:
You: Can I kiss you?
Her: Uhm, yes.
You: Okay, I'll make sure to do that.

And then, she'll kiss you.
its rare that she says yes.

Best ones are

styles kiss routine

or

You: What would you rate your kiss from 1 to 10?
her: 5
You: Lets find out
 

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Thanks a lot guys for your positive answers. I will see which one I do on the night and then report back here. Thanks again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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